Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Style and beauty

Looking for style advice? Chat all about it here. For the latest discounts on fashion and beauty, sign up for Mumsnet Moneysaver emails.

Is this dress awful?

75 replies

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 18:59

Bought on a whim for a present for my dm birthday.Its shirred at the bottom part which you can't see in the pics.Its a brighter purple too.
She likes "different" stuff and hates dressing "old" she'll be 69 in 2 weeks.

Is this dress awful?
OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
FizzyPink · 04/08/2021 19:01

Yes it’s awful but my MIL who has rather “different” tastes would love it so horses for courses

Finfintytint · 04/08/2021 19:02

Very pretty. If it’s her style, she’ll love it. I’d love to wear something like that but my boobs are too big ( and South Facing Grin ).

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 19:05

I'm in 2 minds tbh.It genuinely looks better in real life though

OP posts:
ofwarren · 04/08/2021 19:16

I really don't like it. It looks a bit like a nightdress to me, with those thin straps.
So awkward to wear unless you have tiny boobs as your bra straps will show.
She might like it though 🤷

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 19:18

It's more Boho in real.life iykwim it's below knee length and a bit billowy.
Oh god might have to return it.

OP posts:
DelphiniumBlue · 04/08/2021 19:20

Does she normally wear dresses or tops with spaghetti straps? Lots of older women prefer something they can wear a bra under, and maybe a bit more covered up. But if you think she'd wear it, then fine, it's a nice colour.

badacorn · 04/08/2021 19:20

Yeah it’s awful. I am not against loud prints at all but it looks a bit tacky somehow. Maybe it’s just a bad picture.

Orf1abc · 04/08/2021 19:22

It's not a nice dress. My similarly aged mum would not wear it.

MadMadMadamMim · 04/08/2021 19:22

I think it's awful. And although I'm about 15 years younger than your DM I wouldn't wear something that strappy. It does your arms/bingo wings no favour at all. I hate sleeveless dresses.

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 19:23

She does wear spaghetti straps sometimes.tbh I was thinking of her wearing it abroad or with something over her shoulders.
Yeah it's definitely a bad pic.

OP posts:
Hercisback · 04/08/2021 19:24

That will look awful on most people.

KittenKong · 04/08/2021 19:24

Sorry. No!

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 19:28

🤣 back to the drawing board then

OP posts:
BiscuitLover09876 · 04/08/2021 19:30

I think the fact it's purple makes it old lady-ish

MauveMagnolia · 04/08/2021 19:35

Has she got good arms?

MauveMagnolia · 04/08/2021 19:36

Animal prints suit very few people

Galassia · 04/08/2021 19:36

It’s the sort of thing that ‘fag ash Lil’ would wear on a Grab a Granny night or the Christmas ‘Do’ at her local Bingo hall.

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 19:41

@Galassia pmsl

OP posts:
KittenKong · 04/08/2021 19:42

That bravissimo one is nice!

MintyGreenDream · 04/08/2021 19:43

Ooh thats nice

OP posts:
MauveMagnolia · 04/08/2021 19:44

The 2nd one is much nicer

Elouera · 04/08/2021 19:49

@Galassia

It’s the sort of thing that ‘fag ash Lil’ would wear on a Grab a Granny night or the Christmas ‘Do’ at her local Bingo hall.
Sorry, but I thought this too. It looks like nylon, and she'd get static everywhere she walks.

If its her style, then fine, but for me, I hate spaghetti straps as can't wear a bra, detest animal print and hate purple even more.

If you tell us what she is into, colours etc we might have recommendations.

LanisHouseLot · 04/08/2021 19:50

It's quite something!

But if you have reason to think she'd actually like it then asking here becomes a bit meaningless. How about giving it to her with big caveat of: "I really couldn't make up my mind about this, but decided I'd let you make the final call, and if it's a no we'll choose you something else together. Please don't be polite, I'm genuinely happy to return it and go on a shopping spree!".

And make sure it's not her only present so she has something else to enjoy in case it's a flop.