@teta what do you think of Tender? I have just tried Blousy and definitely do not like it. But I want to like the Miller Harris ones as the descriptions and notes sound so nice!
On that note and the MH cherry velvet @1frenchfoodie, I have no idea how I forgot you're not in the U.K.
I don't think Royal Mail let us send perfume abroad unless the policy has changed recently?
I still can't make up my mind about this cherry one and don't know whether it's just me not back up to sniffing scratch. Would anyone UK based like me to send them a small decant? (Sorry french I feel really bad about that now!) Really interested to see what someone else thinks of it as I'm 50:50 on whether the dry down and longevity is worth the wait. Also would be nice to send something cheery to someone! 
I'm still waiting for DH to haul my winter perfumes out of the loft Due to my shit memory, I can't actually remember a lot of what's in there so there will be pleasant surprises

Re advent calendar I am OK with going to the post office as we have to go occasionally anyway to send recorded stuff...but I am aware I am very unreliable atm and don't want to commit to sending if I don't manage it. But I could send them well before December to make sure it's done? I also like the idea of us doing reviews though. I like our advent calendars however we do it!
@MissBattleaxe I can't believe Ffern were so foolish! You should have said "do you know who I am?"
Agree Tom Ford is annoying in its wankiness and faux shock names and it actually annoys me that I like their Neroli Portofino so much (I really love it
) I prefer to give my money to the Perfume Parlour for their dupe! (Also I can't afford TF prices anyway so it's a moot point
) On that note, I have definitely "slid down the social scale"
which means I have very champagne tastes on very little beer money and everyone round here thinks I am a wanker when they hear me speak
Happy with the choices I have made though, even though we have lots of financial and employment worries at the moment. I think at the moment these problems affect all social classes and income brackets however.
Well that's depressing, let's go back to perfume! If there are any takers for a little decent of the Velvet cherry let me know or PM me 