Wedding dress dilemma!

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Please could you help me go choose between two wedding dresses - both very different!

A) the plain one
B) the Lacey one

I am quite petite and the wedding is English summertime!

Thank you so much!

The first one is beautiful.

The second one...would you be wearing a bit more underneath it than the woman in the photo??

@flowery ha - very much so! I guess a slip or something!

No one wants to see the brides butt cheeks as she walks down the aisle. The lacey one is too see through. Plain one is very elegant, it’s lovely.

Both lovely but depends on venue I would say. First one definitely if you're in a church, but second if is in a barn/field.

Do you wish to be clothed or exposed?

First one without a doubt

The proportions in the top half of the first one might be all wrong on you if you are petite, and it would need the bits over the shoulder shortening. Which might very well spoil the line. It is a lovely dress though.

The second one? It's a no from me. Looks more like something you'd buy from a lingerie shop.

The lace one; I think the plain one is too boring and doesn’t have anything to make it stand out.

I do find it odd that pretty much naked with some see through stuff on top seems to be fashionable for brides right now.

Who wants to take their vows with everyone looking at your arse?

Another vote for the plain one.

The lace one is beautiful but needs something under it. Also, try sitting down in it. I would be terrified of it gaping.

The first is elegant and beautiful.

I wore one quite similar to the first one, but with pleating in the bodice and some sparkly detailing at the waist. It also had pockets which was amazing! So I say the first one.

Given that you’d require a slip/adaptations to make the second one even vaguely appropriate for wearing in public, does it really come down to a choice between these two?

First one is perfect.

Both - one over the other, problem solved and modesty preserved

First one without a shadow of a doubt.

The plain one. If you have a veil, you could always add glitz/diamonds/bling etc on that, or even have a diamonte belt or additions to the shoulders. Especially with your flowers, the plain one wont look as plain as it does in the pics.

A.

Have you tried both on? I really wanted lace but it just looked crap next to my skin so I ended up with one the same material as your first dress.

I don't like either of them. The first one is fine, but I don't like pouffy dresses. The second one - erk! I mean, that's not a dress to be wearing all day unless you have industrial strength tit tape. Also I assume you are tall and very slim with very small breasts otherwise I wouldn't know where to look tbh. That is a very unforgiving style.

The lace 100% just suits a petite bride and an English summer wedding better. Way more current and fresh.

Second one for me, if you are wearing something underneath. the first one is nice, but I feel uncomfortable looking at the straps that are half off the shoulder. Just doesn't look right to me. It irritates me actually, but then I'm weird.

First one.

What's your venue? Have you tried the second one on with a slip? I think it might ruin the delicacy of it, but agree it needs it in real life!

What's your venue? Have you tried the second one on with a slip? I think it might ruin the delicacy of it, but agree it needs it in real life!

What's your venue? Have you tried the second one on with a slip? I think it might ruin the delicacy of it, but agree it needs it in real life!