Judys thank you and to you Calmas Fragrantica is a great start for me, I'm going to have a peruse and keep lurking here then come back with more questions if that's ok?
Also Calmas you are absolutely right, my allergy(ies) is to natural things.
I forgot to say: Aveda used to do a parfum which was quite oily but lovely, it was the smell of their Shampure hair range. When I wore it people always commented on it. The smell was additive. Then it was discontinued, later Aveda brought out an EDT spray which is supposed to smell of Shampure and it does but they have added something artificial and now I don't like it.
As I was looking earlier I was reminded that I also liked the sample of Fragonard Gingermbre DH said he didn't love it but he doesn't have to wear it, I can wear it to work 
Off topic completely but @yoikes if the HRT patches you're talking about are Evorel ones they are back in stock. As everyone wants them that is causing them to go out of chemists as quickly as they come in. However, if it is the Evorel ones you need get on to your GP for a prescription, then go and chat up your usual pharmacist so that they will set some aside for you. Apologies for tagging you if my comment is irrelevant.
Thanks everyone 