Aw thanks phoebe and summoning!
popcorn, my 'rules', (but tbh, I break them all the time, so I guess they're more like tendencies in my case, are):
Avoid: high necks, high heeled, pointy / delicate shoes, wide leg trousers, anything tight fitting around the waist, anything which could be misconstrued as twee / OTT girly, biker jackets.
Those last two are because I'm tall and broad shouldered, so biker jackets make me look like Si & Dave and girly girl stuff just looks a bit incongruent.
Also I don't like 'classic' style / polished chic on me. It is not me at all. Love it on other people though.
Wear: straight leg jeans, a-line skirts, v necks, opaque tights, shorter skirts (swit swoo
), chunky boots, interesting necklaces.