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Can we stop with the stupid ‘can I speak to the manager/mum bob’ comments

116 replies

Birdie379 · 05/09/2019 07:21

I see the same ‘joke’ over and over and over again. We’re not rude about any other style of hair cut so what makes a short bob open to it?

I’ve had versions of bobs my whole adult life. I’m chronically ill and it takes a toll on my hair. It’s fine and thin. It can’t handle being coloured. It always looks best in a short sharp bob, cut into my neck at the back. Any longer and it looks like rats tails, any shorter and it sits flat to my head.

Reading the constant piss-take comments about my hairstyle gets me down (and there’s at least one on every short hair style thread).

It’s not even funny, it’s just boring.

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Manontry · 05/09/2019 08:16

I have just below shoulder length.

I get it cut three or four times a year. I tie it back when i need to.

Bobs suited me in the 80s but look super frumpy on me now, mainly as my jawline is shite now i am overweight and 50 plus!

MorrisZapp · 05/09/2019 08:19

Ba ha ha ha! OK I get the Karen bob thing. I've had the entry level one a couple of times but now it's much more sleek.

I still maintain that all women with hair shoulder length or shorter have bobs unless they can demonstrate otherwise.

Can anyone name a famous person with non bob hair?

Deathraystare · 05/09/2019 08:20

I am sorry you feel this way. Must be annoying. I think a well cut bob looks lovely but would not suit me - I am a bit scruffy and I feel you have to "pull up your socks" if you have a bob if you see what I mean.

I am sure for every post about a bob there is one about those top knot bun things (on men and women!)

GenevaMaybe · 05/09/2019 08:25

I actually think a bob haircut is the opposite of a “can I speak to the manager” do.
A bob to me says meek, inoffensive, people pleaser who doesn’t like to complain.
The “can I speak to the manager” cut is quite pushy and is also more working class.

ShirleyPhallus · 05/09/2019 08:27

Bobs can look amazing!! When Victoria Beckham had hers it was so sleek and classy. Emma Stone has a longer bob, looks fantastic.

Bobs do not equal frumpy “talk to the manager” cuts

Frumpy “talk to the manager” cuts equals talk to the manager cuts

virginpinkmartini · 05/09/2019 08:29

Declaring that something 'isn't funny' means absolutely nothing. Humour is subjective. If every voluntary (yes, voluntary) style choice wasn't allowed to be lightly ribbed because someone, somewhere out there who donned the style was unwell... Well, there would be nothing to laugh at ever.

Mother87 · 05/09/2019 08:30

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Mother87 · 05/09/2019 08:31

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Manontry · 05/09/2019 08:32

We have a woman in our office who used to have the exact speak to the manager haircut. She was really pushy and had a voice that went right through you. She was called something not dissimilar to Karen. Bloody good at her job though but i do remember PMSL when i first saw the meme.

virginpinkmartini · 05/09/2019 08:39

To me, the 'CISTTM' haircut is a severe bob, shorn at the nape and with blocky highlights 😂

Soola · 05/09/2019 08:57

No one should have this haircut, it’s awful.

Being made into a meme is the best thing to happen to it as hopefully it will deter women from having their hair cut in this ‘style’!

Can we stop with the stupid ‘can I speak to the manager/mum bob’ comments
Elementalillusions · 05/09/2019 09:09

The Karen/can I speak to the manager Bob is not an inverted bob.

As a PP said it’s the Kate Gosselin 2007ish cut, short and spiked at the back, usually darker and the front lighter and chin length, side parted and longer on one side, usually with stripy Hilights.

Can we stop with the stupid ‘can I speak to the manager/mum bob’ comments
Littlechocola · 05/09/2019 09:20

I’m just looking forward to everyone trying the bowl cut again.

AnyFucker · 05/09/2019 09:28

Bob is a stupid word, isn't it

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 05/09/2019 09:36

geneva has it spot on - bob is an antithesis of Karen.

LiveInAHidingPlace · 05/09/2019 09:38

I think it's really shit that we pick on women for standing up for themselves.

I've met way more arsehole men than women when working with customers so this tired Karen/talk to the manager haircut meme can fuck off, frankly.

JellyfishAndShells · 05/09/2019 09:49

Anyone else remember the ‘What Not to Wear’ series with Susannah and Trinny ? Every miraculous defrumping makeover included that same choppy, highlighted hairdo, whether it suited the person or not .

OooErMissus · 05/09/2019 09:49

This is Cathreen. She has a 'can I talk to the manager' haircut.

Here she is, asking to speak with the manager about her haircut.

https://www.facebook.com/tomsainsbury6/videos/388535161938223?sfns=mo

virginpinkmartini · 05/09/2019 09:54

@LiveInAHidingPlace it's just a relatable meme, and it absolutely has zero to do with reasonable women standing up for themselves... it's poking fun at the 'customer is always right/ twat with expired coupon who treats retail workers like shit...' there is a male equivalent in the form of sunburnt, beer belly short man with sandals and wrap around blue reflective sunglasses who insists he's going to 'take it straight to the top' Grin I love a good starter pack meme.

Soola · 05/09/2019 10:05

@virginpinkmartini exactly!

It’s ridiculous to take umbrage at a meme!

I shall continue to reference it as I find it funny.

HeadLikeAFkingOrange · 05/09/2019 10:06

Sorry OP Grin

Can we stop with the stupid ‘can I speak to the manager/mum bob’ comments
TheFaerieQueene · 05/09/2019 10:11

@AnyFucker it isn’t stupid when Blackadder says it!

Zaphodsotherhead · 05/09/2019 10:18

I had a bob once. I looked like a hamster in a bad wig.

Bob+chubby cheeks = not a good look

Yutes · 05/09/2019 10:21

People have been rude about ginger hair for years.

FirstTimeFlyer · 05/09/2019 10:22

No one cares OP