I'm interested in the royals and I love some royal watching but I wouldn't call myself a "fan" who is therefore super protective of my preferred royal. But... the abuse Meghan gets for everything and anything she does never ceases to shock me.
Yes, she's doing things that are a little different to how others might have. But for pity's sake, that' because she IS different. This idea that in order to fit in she must convert to being 100% the same as every other English White Royal Bride for the last 300 years is just mind blowing to me.
Perhaps I feel it because as an immigrant myself, even coming from an English speaking country with English parents, I still, 20 years later, get people patronisingly telling me things like, "Well, that's not how we do things in England" or some more subtle version of it. Usually for the most ridiculous things. And I've lived here long enough, met enough people, travelled enough etc to tell you that that might not be how YOU do things, but there are others who DO do it this way.
Argh. It's infuriating.
And frankly, where I come from, a charity that was about helping woman to be well dressed for interviews etc, would absolutely not blink an eye at a high profile patron turning up in a designer dress. It would be considered aspirational, not "rubbing our noses in it".