Re the DoE, in addition to being handsome, he seems to have been very dashing too and who doesn't love a man in uniform? He was probably worlds away from the identikit aristos HM usually came across
Oh my god. I am mortally embarrassed because this just never occurred to me. But of COURSE it's true. Even look at her old male buddies through racing etc - they're all of a certain type of slightly wishy washy aristocrat (who age badly). Honestly, I always got that she loved him and he was dashing etc and that he shook things up internally but I just never quite made the same connection. I think I love her and him even more now. I'm envisioning ridiculously passionate moments behind closed palace doors! 
I totally agree that the Queen's style and beauty was brilliant when she was young, then she settled into very middle age in the 80s and 90s then started coming out into the gorgeous glamorous grandmother we see today. Not sure what was going on back then but it wasn't great. Although to be fair, I think we can agree the 80s weren't a great time in terms of how people looked anyway....!