I have a theory about the Wimbledon appearance. I think whoever planned it knew that they would be seen, so here was an opportunity to say, "Look, Meghan doesn't just hang around with slebs, here she is with some unslebby friends". I think she was deliberately dressed down so that she didn't outshine her pals. The emphasis was very much on her as part of a normal group of women.
I think it's clumsy PR if I'm right, because to then go on to say they aren't naming the godparents when 100/1 we have just seen them papped at Wimbledon is a bit messy.
I could be overthinking.