never that's really awful. I'm sure I should feel just as aggrieved as you in that situation. They must all be really embarrassed about it, but it is very poor that no-one has stood in your corner and make a bit of a fuss about why you aren't invited.
On the other side,. weddings are usually very tedious. Spend that "present" money on a bloody great present for yourself and your Dh and sod the lot of 'em! (Hugs)