I have bought what (I think) is a gorgeous green polka dot midi dress for DD's graduation (assuming she ever actually finishes the dissertation, but that's a rant for another day). Anyway, I'm not usually good at dressing up but she's won a couple of prizes and has been invited to a special chancellor's lunch and reception, so I wanted to look nice. But the shoes. I know I can't do shoes, even for an hour, never mind six. I just can't walk or stand in them without agony that can set my chronic pain off for weeks. Nothing will take the lift for my shortened leg either. I have tried literally dozens of pairs, and nothing is bearable. Even brogues or loafers are almost impossible, as they seem to grab at damaged bits of nerves. Padded trainers and fitflop lulu sandals are all I can wear. But I can't wear white trainers to this event, can I. I'm going to have to wear trousers, and hope black trainers go undetected. I am stupidly, ridiculously upset by this. I know this is a)not even about me b) an absolute nothing c) selfish and self centred. But just once, I want to look lovely and appropriate for a formal event. People (not me!), will be wearing hats ffs. And I will have to wear trainers :( Can anyone think of ANYTHING that might work. If they are flat and padded, I might manage without the orthotics for a few hours, given I know I can wear the lulus. Can't believe how upset I am.