The problem with the DofS is that she won't listen to the staff paid to do their jobs. While people might think it's great she insists on shutting her own car door, it's a safety nightmare. There is a reason the RF don't open or shut their own car door at public events and it's all to do with safety.
Personally I'm fed up of the stories and think they are close to reaching their peak, soon to be uninteresting. If you want them to go away stop clicking on the DM!
Personally I think clothing wise it's shown that the DofS could do with a proper lady in waiting. She desperately needs to get up to speed faster on the etiquette related to the RF. As a women rising through the ranks in private industry ive met my fair share of 'resistance'. I've found it far more effective to first join them, build my team and then make changes. I'm all for change but you can't force it on people when you are the one marrying into the family you know little about in the grand scheme of things. PP brought about change but he did it after being in the RF for years having come from a different RF so knew how everything operated.
I also really resent that people assume Im making references to DofS being half black and therefore I'm automatically racist. The behavior of the DofS has zero to do with her race. There is a huge cultural gap and the DofS isn't helping herself by not listening the men in grey.