Yes, I am but am fine (well used to it, DH has worked away for most of our 24yr relationship ,!) .. .. DH says he will come home tomorrow if needed.. I expect though ill be going to mainland ..
Have already spoken to boss , who is always v supportive in this sort of thing .. I'm more worried about my DF's mental state , right now , mum is in the right place to get proper help, but he will be distraught .. Luckily my brother is there