Aw, laska, I’m sorry to hear about your cat. It’s a tough thing to do. I can completely empathise with the aging parent issue, and being the only one to deal with it all. It’s just so upsetting and I find I’m achieving the same level of guilt about that as I had going back to work when dd was little, a few months after she’d had massive surgery. I thought I was over that level of angst, but clearly not. No matter how much you do, it’s never really enough. And it’s not my mum and dad that try to guilt trip me, they are always very grateful. I manage the guilt thing all by myself :(
The parka is lovely - did Ella buy it at some poi, or have I made that up?