They are trying to tell me this dress looks good for a wedding.

[EachandEveryone]

A casual pub wedding. And other stories. I’m a 38g above. Its not a wedding dress is it? Isn’t it a funny colour?

Oh. Too dark?

I agree with all the fashion advice you've had on this thread OP, there are nicer dresses out there for you that will flatter you much better. Some people just pick what suits them personally and ignore that other people have different shapes/colouring.

I'm busty too and halternecks are really good for me. I also adore tea dresses. I'm a 34G and I have strapless bras that really fit well so don't be afraid to find them - SimplyBe has them as do other shops.

When you find a dress that you really feel happy and beautiful in, then you'll be posting in celebration. Looking forward to those photos :)

I think you need some new shopping helpers. You have a lovely waist and those 3 aren't showing it off at its best at all. I think if you could find a nicer wrap dress (a little longer and a different colour to the one in the first pic) you would look lovely.

September

Bloody hell forgot to put pic!

I wish I had your shape, you would look amazing in a tea dress just below the knee.

That last one (4th dress) is much nicer!

It’s phase eight by btw

I definitely think a wrap dress that shows off your waist.

I quite like the last one, not with the Fit Flops but the dress is suitable.

The last one looks really good!

I think you need a v neckline and knee length would be good

Much better.

Last dress is soooo much better!

Good grief. Get a friend out with you - someone who tells the truth and whose opinion you can trust and who knows your personality.

I bet you could look stunning in a really shapely dress with a flattering neckline ..... and some colour.

The last one is the best.

There's also fat face in st Pancras but might be too casual for a wedding?

something like this?

This is nice

Loads better!

Yes 4th one is better.

I agree about a tea dress, you have lovely broad shoulders and a great bust, but needs balanced out with a fuller bottom half, and a slightly nipped waistline.

Just seen the latest one. Much, much better.

How do you feel in it? Does it feel like “you”?

The shape of brown one (in a different colour!) could look fab on someone else but isn't working for you. The blue is a better shape because you can see your waist, legs and lower arms and the neckline is better but I'm not sure about the colour on you. The floral one would be rejecyed by my 81 yo MIL as too old fashioned and she'd be right (MIL has great style).

Onwards and upwards...

The last is the best cut by a mile but the print is horrid. Might look nice on a teenager but as a woman of a certain age, I know that certain prints don't suit us!

From a bloke...

You have a fuller figure - no denying it. But you can make this an attribute and not a curse.
The dresses you've shown do nothing to make you look feminine. The last one isn't too bad, but still looks very sombre / office like.

Something light in texture and colour, with some colour in the pattern would do wonders.

Your hair is quite striking too, and you should use that!

You're a woman. Celebrate it, and choose a dress that makes you feel like one. Your body shape IS feminine - you just need to find a dress that says the same, instead of one that seems to be saying 'I don't like my body, so I'll try to hide it'.

Phew, last one is better but yes I think a bit dark.

Love that justme. Where from?