Phyllis we sound similar - I'm 5' 7", size 16, and have a lumpy post cs belly - sigh. I'm also 41 which makes it all the harder I think!
I used to really pull of the wiggle dress/pencil skirt/heels thing, and loads of true vintage outfits, but now - with a full on commute, a mad 2 year old boy to chase about, and a husband who works away much of the time - I just can't. I'm finding changing my style to be really hard work (and expensive).
However....
For the first time ever I've bought jeans, and I love these - ASOS ridley, great fit, really hard wearing, and cheap! I have 3 different versions now and I wear them all the time. m.asos.com/asos/asos-ridley-high-waist-skinny-jeans-in-deep-blue-wash/prd/5657545?iid=5657545&affid=14179&channelref=product%20search&mk=abc¤cyid=1&ppcadref=333136101|20505706941|pla-74120971327&gclid=CLmQot--gdICFSyT7QodhbsOGQ
I've bought quite a few tops from Collectif which are figure hugging but not revealing - this one is really nice on, although I wasn't expecting it to be quite as sparkly as it is [[https://www.collectif.co.uk/clothes-c1/celina-lurex-top-p3648]]
I've also bought a couple of shirts from the paraphrase brand at tk maxx which are nice - slight V neck with draping at the shoulders, which gives a nice shape.
This is a weird one from Phase Eight, but it's stunning on! Size down though (and ditch the daft scarf). It skims the hips and looks great with skinny jeans and heels. [[
www.phase-eight.com/fcp/product/phase-eightfina-foil-fringe-scarf-blouse/501423060]]
I also have the Hush ruched skirt and it's good, although pp are right, it's short. You definitely need to dress it properly otherwise it can be a bit ridiculous.
Joanie Clothing is a new favourite too, everything I've bought has been great, although nothing I can link to as it's all out of stock. They seem to have a lot of curry-friendly stuff.
Reading this back I know understand why I'm always skint 😯