Dream put the mouse down lovey! 
as you're new, I will share my 3 year theory with you....
Every decade we live from our 20s onwards has a beginning, a middle and an end, each period lasting roughly 3 years. In this period, we have a phase in our lives, or a lifestyle and in order to look our best and feel our best, it's important that we dress according to the lifestyle/period we are in. It means that your style changes roughly every 3 years and when the changes are big life events - motherhood, menopause etc it can be a shock because you don't know who you are anymore. So, it's important to know what your body shape is, what colours suit you and your lifestyle to get the clothes for that period of time that will suit you.
At some point on this thread, all of us have been "changing lifestyle" where we have lost our style mojo but being on here will really help you. The fact that we are all different heights, sizes, body shapes etc means that it has helped me see what suits other people, and also what suits me. Also, the more people know you, the easier it will be for them to suggest something that will suit you and your lifestyle, and your budget.
We have a mantra of not keeping something unless it's absolutely perfect and so while you will become good pals with the delivery guys, you will also get to know the post office folks well.
So don't despair! None of us arrived on the thread having our shit together but give it a few months and you will too!