The only reason I was round QQ's neck of the woods was I was at the opera: Barber of Seville at the King's Head. I went out of Choir Solidarity because our MD was Figaro but I loved it, laughed a lot and was v. impressed.
Then met our very own QQ and had tea and cake in beautiful, peaceful (and tidy) house with welcoming husband, sweet pooch and courteous, personable teenage son. And did I mentIon she was looking rather chic?
Came home to our bad (still in disgrace) dog, DH and DD in a pile of pizza boxes with DD's friend, on a movie binge. Hot Fuzz Paul and El Dorado. Got to admire their stamina.
Crem, so sorry you've had those nasty surprises. We had awful anxiety over MIL's driving and, like you, we only found out about accidents indirectly. Hope your DF is making good progress.