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MMXV (2015, twenty fifteen) : Here Come The Crepeys!

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CointreauVersial · 28/12/2014 18:21

More crepey wisdom.....

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bigTillyMint · 10/01/2015 09:49

Good news NU and QQ! Am also impressed that your DS was up for the mail, QQGrin

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NUFC69 · 10/01/2015 10:15

Congratulations to DS, QQ; that's brilliant news.

And, yes, BD, a belated happy birthday to you.

bigTillyMint · 10/01/2015 10:16

Rudy, that dress is definitely you and Envy that the 12 is massive on you! But has MrsS missed something?

DH is obviously feeling guilty that he is doing footy all weekend again - just asked me if I wanted to go for a coffee (he is not a café person!) Shame I have just drained the cafetiere!

lalsy · 10/01/2015 10:43

Yaaay QQ - fantastic news - congratulations to your ds! And yaaay NU - so glad you have some good news after your rough Christmas.

dd off too today Hatty [links arms].

hattymattie · 10/01/2015 10:43

QQ brilliant news - well done to DSWine Wine.Smile. Nice to have something cheerful amidst all the general gloom.

Stropperella · 10/01/2015 10:50

Struggling to keep up here, so many posts to digest. Well done to your Ds1, QQ. What a superb start to the year!

Glad to hear you had good news, NU.

I can imagine you look luffly in that dress, Rudy.

Much strength to all those who are enduring mock-related stress.
Dd did pretty badly in most of her exams - as expected - and had a minor wail about it on Monday evening. But I was all matter-of-fact and "What did you expect?" and actually she pulled herself together very quickly and has reacted by doing homework (!!) and re-doing a couple of her exams. I did let the school know about the dreadful headaches she was suffering during the exams, but I also told them that dd admitted that her results would not have been stellar even without the headaches. I think that's fair and so does dd. So, another bit of progress is made as she grows up a bit more. Dd is also being a bit more flexible about what she might study at university (should she get there), i.e. no longer quite so fixated on vet science - which is a blessing. A bit more realistic to aim for life sciences or something like it. But she does realise she won't get a sniff of anything like that unless she applies herself consistently from now on. Job has been given up. Thank goodness. She can't manage 5 subjects in the 6th form and have to work 1.5 days at the weekend. I knew that, but she had to find it out for herself.

This weekend, I shall mainly be doing a very dull assignment on the Equality Act. It is progressing very, very slowly and I am fed up already. Then I need an all-singing, all-dancing whizz-bang lesson for Tues, as I felt last week's was a bit pedestrian. Nothing was said by the tutors, but I suspect that's just because they weren't looking too closely as someone else was making a more active bodge-up than I was.

bigTillyMint · 10/01/2015 10:58

Stropps, that's great progress with DDFlowers And so true about the growing up a bit - I think one of the reasons that I was a lot less angsty at school was because I was the oldest in the year, whilst DD is the youngest. Although that has only turned out to be a problem since about Y9Confused

As for pedestrian lessons, many of mine are, but the kids seem to like it and they certainly make good progress over time and are a lot more settled....Wink

Stropperella · 10/01/2015 11:14

Yes, dd is also one of the youngest in the year (July birthday), but it has always been a problem for her. Also, she likes to swim against the tide. Which doesn't help. (Can't think who she gets that from)

bigTillyMint · 10/01/2015 11:21
Grin I wish DD could have had a gap year/repeat Y10 this year - she isn't that behind, but it would have boosted her so much in lots of ways. Or one after the GCSE's, but that's not allowed. Still, she is saving for a gap year after A levels and wants to do something worthy, I thinkSmile
Stropperella · 10/01/2015 11:24

Re: lessons - I am resigned to the lack of "Real World" sensibility in general on the course, both from the tutors and many of the other students. Not to do with the teaching, but the other day I was chatting to one of the other students and she made the assumption that my dcs must be at private school. I jokingly said that, actually, I had thrown them to the lions in the state sector. And then she said, "Oh well, you must have really fabulous holidays, then." Um. Well... I just smiled thinly.

Stropperella · 10/01/2015 11:27

Can't imagine my dd wanting to do anything worthy, unless perhaps something conservation-oriented. She has muttered about going to Vietnam to save critters in the jungle with some project run by a friend of a friend, but I can't say I believe she will get her act together to do it.

Blackduck · 10/01/2015 11:56

They are early b'day messages crepeys - it's next Wednesday!

QQ congrats to ds

bigTillyMint · 10/01/2015 12:03

Stropps, DD was vair impressed by my friend telling her how she did prison visiting when she was at uni (studying to be a S/W) and now wants to try it. She would be eaten aliveGrin

Well, at least we aren't belated, BD!

CointreauVersial · 10/01/2015 12:36

QQ - fantastic news about DS! I have to say, going by what you told us about him, they'd have been mad to reject him.

DS's poor GCSE predictions have, as expected, caused DH to kick off again about the amount of work DS does, and he was shouting at him earlier to go into his room for at least "two hours revision", even though, at the moment, he has no exams or assessments forthcoming. Hmm He and DS are at opposite ends of the spectrum, and I'm somewhere in the middle, which does lead to a lot of conflict. DH thinks I'm a softy who is failing their child, and I think DH is blinkered and unrealistic in his expectations, and he doesn't collaborate with DS in any way in doing/structuring his schoolwork, just nails him to his desk and stands there with a stopwatch. DS is also rather demoralised at the moment, and wasn't persuaded by my peptalk that targets are "there to be beaten". If only he knew where he wanted to go in life.....

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CointreauVersial · 10/01/2015 12:46

Forgot to say, dress gets a thumbs-up from me, Rudy.

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MontserratCaballe · 10/01/2015 13:34

Love the dress, Rudy.

Huge congratulations to young QQ on a fabulous achievement. Is this to study medicine? Hope you are celebrating tonight.

NU, am so relieved to hear about your scan. Hope you are now feeling more chipper after your rubbish Christmas.

Happy birthday BD. Have a lovely day.

I don't think I will be able yo do Brock park tomorrow as will be enforcing thank you letters and piano practice en famille but will text BTM if I can escape.

Thurs 29 th. - I canbe free by 11 for coffee or later for lunch. Can't remember what was most popular but need to skedaddle by 2.45 and can only go awol for about an hour ish so please let me know when to turn up.

Right, off yo take dd1 off to swimming pool for some one to one time. Am as hairy as a beast. Please may I not bump into anyone I know.

NUFC69 · 10/01/2015 14:02

Enjoy your swimming, Monty, - I would definitely see someone I knew if I needed some maintenance work. I am not quite a 100% yet, but getting there, thanks.

So difficult with some DC, CV, and not made easier when you and DH are not singing from the same hymn sheet. I have said many times that DS was rubbish at school and we seriously wondered whether he was uni material. He did manage uni in the end, but actually working was the making of him.

Weather here is rubbish and it keeps on snowing.

motherinferior · 10/01/2015 14:02

My jumper has arrived. It has charm but not allure, which I suppose it won't being a large fair isle. DP will despise it as I don't look like a stripper in it, obviously (he continues to live in wildly misplaced hope...) though otoh he will sound perversely approving of the fact it doesn't have my usual plunging neckline.

MollyAir · 10/01/2015 14:38

Fantastic congratulations to QQ ds! And for such a mega-hard subject, too. Thanks If y'all start hanging out in Cambridge a bit more, I'll be there.

Fantastic news about your scan, as well, NU. We are still very actively discussing a trip to Newcastle in the near future - I'll let you know when, and we could see if meeting up would be feasible.

Stropps, that is such good news about your dd growing up in a very short space of time. My experience with ds was similar to CV's in terms of fighting with dh about him. Still ongoing but at least ds is now independent and can take no notice of either parent.

Monty Thursday 29 January - 1.00pm is when we are meeting - I may be a bit late for that, but others should be there. I'll confirm my ETA when I've tried to move my meeting. If you can only spare an hour, perhaps arriving at 1.30pm would be sensible, to catch more of us, as we come and go?

lalsy · 10/01/2015 14:53

My slipper quest is over Grin. I love my Homeys. Thank you Wilbur - may your sheep's wool never fade.

I like that dress too, Rudy.

And Stropps, that's great on dd.

Auriga · 10/01/2015 16:18

Congratulations to QQ's DS Thanks and also well done to Stropps's DD for developing a more pragmatic outlook. My niece wanted to do vet sci & it's taken her years to cope with her disappointment and adjust her expectations.

Still feeling awful with sore throat and hurty cough. Did manage to cook yesterday but not much else. DM driving me round bend. Have retreated to bed.

Nice dress, Rudy, can see you'd look good in it.

MollyAir · 10/01/2015 16:24

Likewise, I know loads of people who wanted to do vet sci, and were disappointed. Our dogwalker (we are helping her in her ambitions Wink) told me a list of alternatives she put on her UCAS form, including vet nursing and biological science, iirc. She said she thought it covered all the bases.

Stay in bed, Auriga! Hope you feel better soon.

NUFC69 · 10/01/2015 16:30

That would be great, Molly, it would be nice to meet another Crepey.

Stropps, sorry I missed the comment about your DD - it is a fine line between encouraging aspirations and not over inflating them. DD sounds as if she is learning.