Thanks All. Spent the afternoon in two local outlet "malls". Picked up the Radley Grosvenor in black medium for my birthday/Xmas present (was a bargainous £96). Tried on a couple of dresses in Whistles: www.johnlewis.com/whistles-bella-ikat-print-bodycon-dress-multi/p1571424 (interestingly, also at £70, so much for the super bargains!
). www.atterleyroad.com/orchid-print-shift-dress-6.html This was only £30 as there was some make up around the collar.
Felt the first one wore me a bit and looked slightly too work-y (and yet, I'd probably never consider it for work). I liked the second one, but wasn't sure it was celebratory enough really. Amazing price for a silk dress though.
We then carried on to the upmarket outlet place, where I pounced on these beauties: www.lkbennett.com/Shoes/Sandals/Arianna-Metallic-Leather-Sandal/p/BRSSARIANNAMETALLICLEATHERGreyAnthracite. Not exactly cheap at £150, but they're beautiful to wear, relatively comfortable (I'm terrible in heels, but have always found LKB comfortable and walkable in: used to buy them more when in London pre kids).
So I've decided to go with what I have and just wear the shoes of wonder. They go with dresses (I've got an old black satin shift that these edge up a bit), jeans (have planned 3 going out outfits around them and jeans).
Thank you all for your suggestions, I did also pop into Coast and Phase Eight before finding the shoes, but I just find things are too often a bit too dressy for me there.
I might still pop to H&M though as pleather leggings would also work with the shoes, so thanks for the suggestion mrpop! And the dress solutions: I actually saw the pleated blue dress in Whistles, but they didn't have my size.
Coats are sooo tricky. I've got a Merrell Wakefield for torrential rain, an Aigle Cuckmere for the cold, and a white fake fur coat for winter nights out (bought 10 years ago and still going strong!). I did see the first outlet had North Face Artic Parkas (and loads of others, but DD wouldn't let me look) for £215, quite a discount!