Oh thank you all so much - best tip was 'breath' from Santa!!! I just starting thinking about it last night and went into minor panic mode.
So plan is - no mn today (thanks QueenC) - I will reward myself with a quick check in about 9pm if I get everything done!!! The washing is on and I have split the ironing into an essential and non essential pile. I will study this evening and get up early tomorrow morning to do an extra hour too.
DH has agreed to go buy pillows. He has also agreed to sort out the hall.
I'm near a good TKMaxx with work tomorrow so will go there at lunchtime to get some diffusers (agree totally non essential Dry but I like them and all mine are empty) Sleeping bags are a great tip for future reference - can't happen this time as they are flying and taking hand luggage only.
Betty I would love to get a cleaner in - one of the ongoing little niggles between me and DH - I want one, he says unnecessary (and in fairness he does most of the housework).
Ok must crack on - apols again for the very long, boring, stressy housework posts - normal service will resume shortly.
One take it easy, you may feel a bit better but make sure you are fully recovered.