Oh dear, Rose, you still do sound down - I was hoping that once you knew that DD had arrived safely you would feel happier. You know she will be fine.... Having said that, one of the worst days of my life was when DD was in labour with her first baby. Now before that day it had never occurred to me that I would feel that it was my place to be there with her (I really felt that I am not that kind of interfering mum), but, but, but .... When DSoniL rang me to tell me that she had started I was fine, but as the time went on I really truly felt that I should be there with her. I wasn't, of course, I just think that giving birth has been women's work for so many millennia, that subconsciously it was where I should have been. Waiting at the end of the phone was not good.
Incidentally, Rose, I have Birkenstocks and absolutely love them - so multi-functional, particularly on holiday where 1 pair of white ones will be my "house" shoes, pool shoes and going out shoes. I think Costco have them on offer at the moment. They do take a little bit of getting used to, but once you have done that you're hooked (or I am).
Thanks for the info re freezing the cake, MrsS - I intend to visit Waitrose tomorrow to get the marzipan and I hope, poppy seeds.