What ho crepeys. Returned from inlaws visit, and did just about the opposite of everything recommended. Took DS, took him to the hospital, drove for five hours with sprained ankle, and walked for hours down the longest hospital corridors known to man. I swear we crossed two counties.
All unbearably sad. FiL so brave, and philosophical, and so funny still - it was all I could do to hold it together. Didn't think it would be the done thing to weep and wail while wife and son kept their composure.
DS did start asking just what IS the matter with dadda - he's very yellow - and I'll tell him in good time. One consideration is ensuring him and his cousins (age 6 and 7) have been told roughly the same thing, so no one gets a nasty shock.