Oh no, MI, I hope you are feeling better now and do not get any icky recurrence.
MrsS, I didn't know there was such a thing as Hungarian gourmet food. 
Admittedly, I have never been to Hungary, but I haven't heard immensely positive reports of the cuisine there. Although thinking about it, these reports may all have come from vegetarians.. Good luck on the sausage delivery front. :)
Rudy, I know where you're coming from about dependent women, however I used to do absolutely everything myself and me insisting that dh does at least some is to preserve my health and sanity. The only way I'm dependent (and this is admittedly quite a biggie) is in the business IT dept, as he is in charge of most of that. Otherwise, everything is in effect my job. In dh's (rather feeble) defence, he spent nearly 30 years married to someone who did nothing but clean excessively, run around after her children (even once they were adults) and spend money, whilst he worked all hours (earning proper money, unlike now). Therefore, he has had to learn a new role since moving in with me, but he hasn't learnt it very well. As for dcs putting bins out etc, getting them to do chores is a battle I continue to fight. Sometimes they are helpful and sometimes not so much.
I used to do all the DIY, but since dh relentlessly criticised all my efforts, I handed over all DIY to him. He is actually very good at it, has a vast array of tools and is a perfectionist. The problem lies in a) him getting round to doing the job and b) the snail-like speed with which it then progresses. When I paint anything, I consider the fact that it ends up all one colour means that it is a job well done. When he paints anything, he sands it all to buggery first and then is all super-careful so there are no blobs blah blah blah. My standards are possibly excessively low, whereas his are ultra-high - in the painting and decorating dept, at least.