I have no Tiffanys! So I will join one and marsha in the sans blue box bench.
Big hugs to ani it sounds that you have terrible pain during and after your pregnancies,I think its best to see a good consultant,and see what advice they can offer you, but don't think any negative thoughts,like what if ,or is it late,or anything of that sort,it will consume you. For now enjoy your time with your family.
I want another dc soon,but like you, we would need to move to a four bedroom house,it means a big move for us,as the properties prices are astronomical in our area,so we are looking at other properties in other areas ,but everything is so expensive,
And just like you ,another dc will have to be delivered via c-sec,DH was not around when I went to labour,it was an emergency ,so I'm really scared of going through it alone! So I think we will give it a rest for another year! My hands are full with dd and dss!