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MN Vogue - Vol 16

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shopafrolic · 19/07/2013 22:34

Following on from here
A place to talk Style and Beauty, everyone welcome as long as you bring links.........

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carrie74 · 30/07/2013 10:01

Hello All

Liberty, lovely shoes, but I've had problems with Boden shoes being desperately uncomfortable too, it's so disappointing! And beautiful shirt, gorgeous colours.

Novice sounds like a fab night!

Marsha good luck with the house viewing (and the job).

Mig, lovely top, and has brought me onto a panic of what I'm going to wear in France next week: temperatures on Thursday are due to be 37/38 and no AC (Le Sob). We go on Saturday when due to be a bit cooler, but then temps rising throughout the week again. Looks like we'll just be sitting in the pool most of the day...

Feeling a bit down as applied for a job which sounded perfect for me (my current job is absolutely fine, so leaving it has to be for totally the right reasons), closing date was Friday just gone with interviews due tomorrow. Haven't heard anything Sad. Emailed last night to ask if they'd selected their final interview candidates, in the [vain] hope they'll have pushed it all back as they couldn't get through the applications on time, but more likely they already had someone in mind with no intention of interviewing. Still not heard back. Left me a little despondent.

mignonette · 30/07/2013 10:40

Just wanted to share this pin with you all. She (for me) is the epitome of Summer style. I like Cath Kidston BTW (made comment about the difference between her rose prints and this one) so do not mean to sound snippy but I so so so want that hat.

Hi Carrie What a shame about the job. It is so discouraging, especially when you truly feel you'd be great at it. I hope another opportunity comes along soon but in the meantime, enjoy your holiday.

  • The secret (as it is anywhere) is layering of natural fabrics. I avoid fussy necklines, waistlines as in the heat they twist and stick. Pairs of both casual and smarter shorts, flippy skirts for still days and some longer light fabric skirts can keep you cooler then the sun beating down on bare legs. And you can always do a 'Flasher style waft' when nobody is looking!

No blacks/dark colours in the heat of the day for me as I overheat so easily.

Sleep Would the French not welcome your young child en restaurante? The places near where my Father lived used to make up child plates of the most sophisticated meals for little kids. They would put cushions on seats for them and invite into kitchens. The dogs have their own 'menu' in many high end places too Grin.

I've not been to the French Alps. You'll have to pin some of the places you visited. We often visit Brittany whether as a destination or en route to St Malo/Roscoff/Le Havre. I adore the NE and NW Breton coasts, their rugged dark granite, utilitarian life styles and separateness. Paimpol is a favourite fishing village. It is not en route to anywhere though. As for stopping points, Honfleur, Deauville and Le Touquet are very smart and make you want to dress up, walk smartly to a restaurant/bar and eat Moules. In the Loire I like Richelieu, Poitiers (avoid that space park though) and Angers for the lovely shopping, riverside and surrounding countryside, forests, the castles and vineyards. Look out for Breton salt caramels as you drive down-most supermarket stock them! And Carte D'Or Calvados, apple and caramel ice cream......

The medieval town of St Pauls near Vence is somewhere I have heard people praise and Vence seems reminiscent of Alghero in Sardinia with its five medieval gateways and warrens of old buildings full of artists and artisans. D H Lawrence used to be buried here didn't he? If you drive out of town you'll find less tourist-orientated Brocantes and village markets and there will still be linens to be had at good prices. I have a set of six Orangina bar-tabac glasses and they can go for ££ so you might consider snapping them up (and other brands like Pernod) if you are an Ebayer.

If you want to visit a castle then I adore Villandry in the Lower Loire region-exquisite gardens with a low bridge under which swallows fly and swoop in rigid patterns and routes nearly low enough to hit you but always managing to avoid it. The pottager style grand gardens are edged with stepover fruit trees and we gorged (illicitly) on the pears that had fell onto the soil. It is great for children too with sweeping lawns (you can run on some), parapets and walls to climb, forests edging it, lots of twisty and straight paths for running and gory stories of ancestor battles/ghosts....

this Conde Naste article on French islands is good and has photos of Belle-Isle and Isle de Re. I never realised that there are tiny islands off the Southern French coastline, some nature reserves, some banned to visitors but some with hotels and places to stay. These are my next travel ambition.

I have noticed so many interesting braided and twisted hair styles in Corsica amongst locals and tourists. The little girls had beautiful up braids- helps in the heat with those gorgeous little tendrils clinging clammily to the backs of their necks. I so want to develop some braiding skills but think I am a bit too old and not-dewyyoung-of-complexion to pull off anything more than a messy bun.

Drywhiteplease · 30/07/2013 11:46

Ahhhhhh....don't you hate it when you've written a long post with one finger in my case and then MN goes down and it disappears!!!Sad

Mig agree with the others that the bandeau top is lovely. Your holiday wardrobe is v chic indeed. Must up my game. I have another 10 days until we go away....it's taking ages!
Carrie so sorry about your job disappointment, hope you can not think about it while you are away.

I've been thinking about my hair. About 4 yrs ago I cut my v thick,straight no grey yet hair into a structured graduated bob. My straight talking sis said it aged me. I disagree and have loved it. But recently I've seen a lot of women my age looking fab with longer hair. Hmmmmm. I know you don't know me IRL but just wondering whether to keep it as it is or let it grow.
My answer to me would be " a lot of women mistakenly try to look younger by clinging onto their long hair. I think a good,structured cut can look incredibly chic. It's all about the individual woman and her whole look"
Any thoughts?

Drywhiteplease · 30/07/2013 11:47

And I've discovered that my DCs can make beds and Hoover Shock ...3 hrs until guests arrive and I should be cleaning bathrooms and not on MN!!!!

AmberNectarine · 30/07/2013 11:53

Dry I think it wholly depends on the condition of the hair. Yours sounds like it is in great condition, and it is thick. The worst thing is when women hang on to long, straggly, dry overdyed hair. Now that really is ageing. FWIW, I dont think your haircut is remotely ageing!

My hair has lost a lot of volume since I had the kids (have been anaemic pretty much continually, despite tablets and an IV infusion) so if it gets below the shoulder it starts to look crappy.

mignonette · 30/07/2013 12:17

Are you happy with it Dry? In my small experience, many chic/stylish women seem to keep the same hairstyle for years and it becomes part of their look. I remember an article the style director Paula Reed wrote for UK Vogue years ago in which she discussed the agonising process of cutting her long dark straight hair (worn always in a pony tail) into a chic sharp bob and how her hair had become so much a part of her look that it was incomprehensible to most that knew her.

I have below shoulder graduated style. I have a lot of hair with three pronounced waves at ear, jaw and shoulder that are near impossible to eliminate. My hair was ringlets as a child. I cannot do chic, sleek hair. My Spanish/French ancestry has given me bold hair! So I wash and go and occasionally pin, braid, wave it. I do not colour it as really cannot be bothered with up keep and I hate going to the hair stylists just as I hate massages/facials etc.

What type of hair do you have? I do like longer thicker hair on women at any age. If it suits you a poker straight pony tail with interesting ties and maybe wrapping the hair around the tie looks very very chic. Longer hair gives you more to play with if you can learn how to put it up but it is also hot, needs to be very very clean when it is all one length especially and I prefer it when it is not highlighted/dyed/ to death. Maybe try some wigs to give you an idea? Mind you you'll probably die laughing like i did when I tried it.

santamarianovella · 30/07/2013 12:33

dry i told dh that its a bit extreme for them,but they love it!,they called us at the finale of season one screaming 'that did not actually happened! how could they do that?'' "the lannisters deserve to burn in hell" Grin.
from your pics your hair is lovely as it is, i think it all depends on the condition of the hair. not the length.

sleep i find the french very tolerable of kids in restaurants,we took the dcs to a couple of fancy restaurants,they had special kids menus and dss was given a coloring book and crayons and not disney themed ones,but a very fancy tin tin one!,its part of their believe that its never to early for kids to appreciate good food!

mig we visited st paul de vence a couple of years ago,lovely place,full of art galleries,and exquisite tiny shops, had an amazing dinner at colombe d'or.

i love the panama hat with the purple ribbon, did you see aything similar somewhere?

carrie sorry about the job,hope you find a much better one soon.
are you going to the south?

marsha good luck ,we are thinking of moving to a bigger place,one of our neighbors is interested in ours,we just cant decide where to buy,which is a night mare for us ATM.

mignonette · 30/07/2013 12:36

Somebody posted a NOP Panama pin on here that I pinned too. Think they are the same hat. Apologies for not remembering who of you all it was.

Santa sigh over La Colombe D'Or'. Can you remember what you wore?

Sleepwhenidie · 30/07/2013 13:15

Mig and Santa we don't solely feed our DC's McDonald's (honest Wink), they regularly get to go to restaurants but to be honest, the effort involved in getting all three to stay seated and eat properly in a really nice restaurant cancels out any enjoyment DH and I get out of it! DS1 (7) is getting better but I think we need to wait until the younger two catch up a bit Smile.

We have been to Vence before and love it, it doesn't feel too touristy, unlike St Paul de Vence which is swarming with them, although it is beautiful. DH and I ate at Colombe d'Or too but I have no idea what I wore, nothing very exciting I am sure as I was heavily pg at the time Grin

Love that hat Mig

What is happening with the job Marsha? Good luck with house stuff!

Carrie don't give up hope on the job, you never know....

Dry I think your hair in pics looks great but if you fancy a change just go for it, you can always change it back!

Come on Novice, tell us the restaurant DH proposed in! Sounds like you had a great night Smile

mignonette · 30/07/2013 13:17

Sleep I don't think that honestly- it just happens to be a dependable option when travelling with kids doesn't it? I have been known to push it at my kids too Wink....And KFC. And Nando's.

santamarianovella · 30/07/2013 13:22

mig i wore a stella m,wrap style dress, cant find a pic,its from the 2010 SS collection,beige and khaki print.wore flats for walking around town,and changed into heels before going to dinner,i would not say that people were very dressed up,very typical french understated chic.

Drywhiteplease · 30/07/2013 13:22

I do like my hair as it is and value your opinions. I think it suits the length and I've never felt frumpy. I changed my hairdresser earlier in the year ( he was a fantastic cutter, but a bit of a prima Donna ...) I don't think my new h dresser is as good a cutter ( and bobs need to be well cut IMO) so perhaps I need to change cutter or grovel and go back.

santa DS said to look on You Tube to see the actors hunks being interviewed.....big MISTAKE......spoilers! Damm

mignonette · 30/07/2013 13:24

Think I can recall that collection Santa - how chic.

Dry yes maybe a change of stylist is what you need rather then changing a style you are happy with.

santamarianovella · 30/07/2013 13:40

oh no i did not mean that sleep Grin,getting three kids under control is near impossible, dss is 7 so he is at that age were he can sit through an entire meal ,dd is a handful,i need to pick her up and take her for a walk around or stare at paintings or something and then take her back to eat, but i feel that i could never do that in fancy restaurants in london.

shopafrolic · 30/07/2013 14:04

it was me who pinned the hats

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santamarianovella · 30/07/2013 14:25

Gorgeous shop thanks,

mig found it,this dress. I'm not that tall so it's not very short on me!

dry I know he is one of the bad guys but I've got a crush on Jamie lannister Grin ,DH read the books when they first came out ,and still remembers a lot of details, he keeps ruining it for me!

libertychick · 30/07/2013 14:46

Both pairs of Boden shoes have gone back - cost £12.50 to return Shock will I ever learn??? While I was out I popped into Office and bought Grey leather converse - I had to throw my old navy converse out recently and have really missed them. Mine are slightly different to the version pinned - grey stitching and burgundy sole trim (these things matter!!!)

Love the hat in that pin Mig. Sleep I am with you on not bothering much with restaurants with kids - DD will usually eat well enough but no chance of getting to linger over dessert/coffee etc which ruins it IMO.

Carrie sympathy over the job - it's such a pain and probably is the case that they have someone internal already lined up.

Marsha when we were trying to sell last year we did all the viewings with us out - I knew I'd get defensive especially if they showed any signs of not fully appreciating just how much we had done to the house Grin. Good luck with it all.

Dry I like your hair. I have had everything from short crop to mid back length over the last 10 years and find with long hair you just end up putting it up all time and it's a lot more maintenance. I'd grovel and go back to the brilliant cutter Smile

QueenCadbury · 30/07/2013 15:50

libertylove the converse
dryin pictures that i've seen of you I don't think you hair's ageing. But if you fancy a change then grow it as you can always cut it back again.

Agree with whoever said it's easier to take dc to fast food chains. I get so exasperated ith mine. To be fair they are good eaters and will eat veg/fruit etc but I've noticed lately how the older dc have appalling table manners. I'm desperately trying to get them to use cutlery properly as opposed to fingers.

mig your clothes and holiday sound divine.

carrie that's pants about the job. To give such a short time between closing date and interview is giving no one external a chance to prepare.

If they want someone specific so badly then it's their loss not to see who else is out there. It just means that it's not meant to be and something better will be along.

Went to see despicable me this morning and it is soooo funny. I loved it, as did the dc. Dragged them into fossil but they only sell belts online. Fell in love with this which is a fabulous match for my emerald swatch. Walked past lk bennett and also fell in love with this in the window. paris I saw your ted baker in the window too and it's lovely. Ended up in the womens clothes dept of Harvey nicks as that's where they've put Gromit. Why on earth they think putting a huge Gromit statue in the middle of an expensive clothes dept when there's 100s of kids traipsing in is beyond me. I was terrified at what my dc may touch!

Grazia has a big report on the AW trends so will report back when I've read it properly.

Drywhiteplease · 30/07/2013 16:12

Thanks all for your comments re hair....yes I think a new stylist is in order.

Annianni · 30/07/2013 16:19

I also think your hair is lovely Dry.
Have you got any photos with longer hair?
cos I'm nosy

Love those Converse Liberty.

I'll catch up with all the links later.

I'm another who daren't take the dc's to nice restaurants at the moment... Ds2's latest trick is to climb on the table and crawl across it commando style on his stomach, to have a sip of everyone's drinks.
Luckily he seems to have stopped lobbing food across the room...

really hope I'm not in the dry over dyed long straggly hair group of women that Amber mentioned earlier :o

OneLittleLady · 30/07/2013 16:48

I feel so crushed and deflated, it's nine years this month since my daughter passed away and in the last week, 12, yes 12, of my friends have announced their pregnancies. I didn't know it would still hurt this much so many years later Sad

Fedupnagging · 30/07/2013 16:48

It has taken me over an hour to catch up on all the posts I've missed -last looked properly when it was still MNV 14. However, am loving all the links and am following some of you on Pinterest.

The hats are great; although I wear hats all the time in winter, I don't tend to wear them in the summer.

Fit flops- I have 2 pairs Blush but the comfort on hot days dog walking far outweighs the lack of style!

Have not bought much recently - apricot colour linen dress from Sandwich and these www.dune.co.uk/jimmo-multi-strap-slingback-wedge-sandal-0079505410017511/ .

Going on holiday on Friday so trying to decide what to take.

Fedupnagging · 30/07/2013 16:53

one we posted at the same time and mine is so trivial in comparison. Am sorry you lost your daughter; it will obviously be painful for you atm with all your friends' announcements.

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AmberNectarine · 30/07/2013 16:53

Oh one, so sorry to hear that. Not the same at all but I mc'ed late last year, would have been due at the same time as a rather high profile baby, and I did feel quite sad at times last week. Lots of love and am available for PMs if you want/need to talk xxx

Drywhiteplease · 30/07/2013 17:11

Oh One and Amber so so sorry for both your heart breaking losses. MNV is a seemingly fluffy thread.....but under the fashion talk there is a lot of sympathy and kindness.
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