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AngelieMumsnet · 30/09/2015 09:17

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maureen3733 · 13/10/2015 07:25

that when a toddler has a tantrum its their way of expressing their frustration that they cant communicate their feelings. they are not being naughty

libra101 · 13/10/2015 08:19

Don't put all your eggs in one basket!

Several years ago we had quite a number of Halifax privatisation shares which we thought were as safe as houses.

Everyone knows what happened in the banking crisis, the shares became worth next to nothing.

We lost quite a lot of money, and we have learned that diversification is the key!

IDismyname · 13/10/2015 08:26

Treat others how you'd like to be treated yourself.

I apply that to the dustbin men to the Queen. However, have yet to meet her Maj.

liane1987 · 13/10/2015 08:33

Do what makes you happy and not to worry about what other people think. I spent so much of my teens and early twenties trying to be someone else, the "perfect" perspm....now I am in my late twenties I realise its OK to be me.

Sellins · 13/10/2015 08:44

Stand up for yourself

lily2190 · 13/10/2015 09:34

You can't do anything in a hurry. Doing it properly is the shortest way.

SO true in my experience. Taking a shortcut almost always ends up taking a lot longer.

andreaca · 13/10/2015 09:47

Try to make at least one person smile everyday, it could make all the difference

helly27 · 13/10/2015 10:14

Treat others how you wish to treated, if you wouldn't want to be spoken to a certain way don't speak like that to others, if you would not be happy to receive that text you are about to send then don't send it.

Marty673 · 13/10/2015 10:32

My gran always told me 'Don't buy what you can't afford' and she was right. It helped me to learn to save up for things I want, so I appreciate them more.

I've been able to buy a lovely family house when most of my friends are still in rented, so thanks gran for all your little sayings. I intend to give the same advice to my children as soon as they're old enough to understand.

shydaylily · 13/10/2015 10:59

Every thing in moderation. from my mum, the best advice she gave me and how i live my life every day x

angiesandhu1 · 13/10/2015 11:06

Dont worry about what others around you are doing. Think about how you can make you and your family happy and proud

PhilTB54 · 13/10/2015 11:31

Other peoples opinion of you is none of your business. It says more about them than you.

balloon66 · 13/10/2015 11:41

you never know what stresses people are living with- treat everyone as you would like to be treated.

Dessallara · 13/10/2015 11:42

why to leave it for tomorrow when you can do it today.

sammylea80 · 13/10/2015 12:06

Treat people how you want to be treated, respect is earned and not given

Jocelynne123 · 13/10/2015 12:23

The best piece of advice I've ever been given is to accept help when it's offered and to not be afraid to ask for help. People that love you will be more than happy to help you and they won't judge you for needing help. There is nothing wrong with needing a break from you children or not knowing how to do something. Everyone makes mistakes and needs to learn. Xx

katieskatie82 · 13/10/2015 12:57

always trust your instincts!

emily13 · 13/10/2015 13:47

Always keep an open mind.

09babisham · 13/10/2015 14:27

My parents advice - always pay your rent or motgage first before any other bills you need to keep a roof over your head. Try and save each week even if its only pence, over time it will build and you will be surprised how much you have accumulated.

Squina1 · 13/10/2015 15:16

Don't feel guilty if you are unable to breastfeed. Formula milk is thoroughly tested and full of nutrients. Having breastfed three and formula fed one, there is no difference in their health, growth and well-being.

JoJoBaldwin · 13/10/2015 15:37

Saying "no" doesn't make you a bitch. Learn how to do it, and do it often so as not to become overloaded with commitments,

peanutbutterjellytimex · 13/10/2015 15:50

Do not dwell on past mistakes or regrets, everyone makes them!

This is something I have to remind myself often!

kerryanna · 13/10/2015 15:53

In times of confrontation, difficulty and challenges......Do NOTHING.....iIf they do not disappear or find self resolution, let what follows guide you.

MissPoppins · 13/10/2015 17:03

Treat others as you wish to be treated x

maisiesnan · 13/10/2015 17:08

My dad used to say if you're pretty you don't need make-up and if you're ugly it's a waste of time and money.
My favourite is Nobodies Perfect