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Kirstygingee · 15/11/2025 17:22

MR- Mandatory Reconsideration
NC- New Claim
COC- Change of Circumstances
SD- Scan Date
LRC- Low Rate Care
MRC- Middle Rate Care
HRC- High Rate Care
LRM- Lower Rate Mobility
HRM- Higher Rate Mobility

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Princessmom222 · 03/12/2025 09:15

SassyPearlMember · 02/12/2025 23:22

It's true you should definitely listen to your gut but at the same time calling with additional evidence only is something that logic says will help which is worth it.
Even if all you do is tell them the information for your additional evidence it could be the final part the final cog needed to get this vehicle moving in a positive direction for you and your babies.

Ive called, probably had the nicest call handler ive come across. Anyway my twins are still in the que waiting to be seen by a dm.She did say twins do tend to take a lot longer. She also said that it can take upto six weeks to be seen by a dm when its in this que. But its been waiting to be seen by a dm since the end of september. So im definitely not looking at this side of christmas unfortunately. She has put down for me to recieve a text when a decision is made. So not calling anymore unless i get some more information to send them.

JenniJay16 · 03/12/2025 09:59

Out of curiosity where are they up to with MR? My date is 27/6 so definitely thinking January now :(

robodo · 03/12/2025 10:08

JenniJay16 · 03/12/2025 09:59

Out of curiosity where are they up to with MR? My date is 27/6 so definitely thinking January now :(

I'm 30/05 and still not with decision maker for MR

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 10:55

I’m 20/06 and was told it was with a decision maker on Monday but I don’t believe them because I have always had inconsistent information whenever I have called.

might call out of curiosity because I’m betting they will say it’s not with anyone and is in the queue waiting to be looked at.

Princessmom222 · 03/12/2025 11:39

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 10:55

I’m 20/06 and was told it was with a decision maker on Monday but I don’t believe them because I have always had inconsistent information whenever I have called.

might call out of curiosity because I’m betting they will say it’s not with anyone and is in the queue waiting to be looked at.

Edited

Fingers crossed for you that a decision has been made!!

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 14:41

Princessmom222 · 03/12/2025 11:39

Fingers crossed for you that a decision has been made!!

I’m guessing it will be a few weeks yet as the only awards I’m seeing people post are still May dates. Seen a few early Junes but nothing else.

I know with my new claim I was told it was with a DM and then the next time I rang up they said it wasn’t and even when it was with a DM it took a whole month to get a decision.

i think we are going to get declined again anyway so all in all I’m just not getting my hopes up in any way haha!

fingers crossed for all waiting please update us all so we know a vague idea of dates ♥️

Princessmom222 · 03/12/2025 15:44

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 14:41

I’m guessing it will be a few weeks yet as the only awards I’m seeing people post are still May dates. Seen a few early Junes but nothing else.

I know with my new claim I was told it was with a DM and then the next time I rang up they said it wasn’t and even when it was with a DM it took a whole month to get a decision.

i think we are going to get declined again anyway so all in all I’m just not getting my hopes up in any way haha!

fingers crossed for all waiting please update us all so we know a vague idea of dates ♥️

Edited

Hopefully you dont get turned down again, its awful waiting a long time to just get turned down. Fingers crossed you manage to get awarded this time!

I will let you know if i hear anything but my MR is after yours and im still waiting on my NC and COC but if i find out anything il update on here.

Best of luck, i hope you hear soon!

LuckyGoldBird · 03/12/2025 16:49

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 14:41

I’m guessing it will be a few weeks yet as the only awards I’m seeing people post are still May dates. Seen a few early Junes but nothing else.

I know with my new claim I was told it was with a DM and then the next time I rang up they said it wasn’t and even when it was with a DM it took a whole month to get a decision.

i think we are going to get declined again anyway so all in all I’m just not getting my hopes up in any way haha!

fingers crossed for all waiting please update us all so we know a vague idea of dates ♥️

Edited

Mine was 15th may mr and they made a decision yesterday x

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 17:47

LuckyGoldBird · 03/12/2025 16:49

Mine was 15th may mr and they made a decision yesterday x

Hope you got the award you wanted!

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 08:44

Hrc awarded hope all the mammies get there award they deserve for there babies 💗

MamaTo3under4 · 04/12/2025 08:47

Congrats @Mammybear3glad you got your award iv been a silent watcher I haven’t commented much may I ask what your scan date was xx

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 08:52

MamaTo3under4 · 04/12/2025 08:47

Congrats @Mammybear3glad you got your award iv been a silent watcher I haven’t commented much may I ask what your scan date was xx

Thank you so much yes it was the 27/10 x

Princessmom222 · 04/12/2025 09:08

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 08:44

Hrc awarded hope all the mammies get there award they deserve for there babies 💗

How old is your little one? My twins have just turned three and my brother is telling me that its unlikely they will be awarded because of their age.

MamaTo3under4 · 04/12/2025 09:10

@Mammybear3ohh wow that’s super quick , only last month! Congrats again x

MamaTo3under4 · 04/12/2025 09:11

@Princessmom222no that’s not true there’s no age limit where they can’t be awarded they can be awarded at age 1 if they need it, my son was 3 when he was awarded middle rate care xx

Lmtab · 04/12/2025 09:11

Lmtab · 03/12/2025 14:41

I’m guessing it will be a few weeks yet as the only awards I’m seeing people post are still May dates. Seen a few early Junes but nothing else.

I know with my new claim I was told it was with a DM and then the next time I rang up they said it wasn’t and even when it was with a DM it took a whole month to get a decision.

i think we are going to get declined again anyway so all in all I’m just not getting my hopes up in any way haha!

fingers crossed for all waiting please update us all so we know a vague idea of dates ♥️

Edited

MR 20/06

GUESS WHAT?! I phoned up today and it’s ’not with a decision maker it’s in holding queue 3’ whatever that means!
I knew it it’s a good job I have learned to take everything they say with a pinch of salt 🤣

next week it’s a full year since I started this process. Six months for new claim and six months MR.

But she told me my claim had been declined and my heart sank and then she said oh no sorry I’m looking at your original claim. So it could be worse at least there is still hope yet ha!

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 09:20

Princessmom222 · 04/12/2025 09:08

How old is your little one? My twins have just turned three and my brother is telling me that its unlikely they will be awarded because of their age.

She has just turned 3

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 09:21

MamaTo3under4 · 04/12/2025 09:10

@Mammybear3ohh wow that’s super quick , only last month! Congrats again x

Thanks hun 😊x

Curlycookie5 · 04/12/2025 09:29

Has anyone had to do a uc review while waiting for disability elements to be backdated? I feel they are doing it now so they can query payments and not pay the backpay?

Red1991 · 04/12/2025 09:36

Hello lovelies…im doing a new claim for my daughter and my brain has fogged on the national insurance part …do i put that number on her birth certificate on? I can’t find a child benefit number and cannot remember what I put there for my sons t.i.a….

anyone have coc close to sd 24/06? Haven’t called in a few weeks as I think it’s pointless at this point think im on week 23 x

Red1991 · 04/12/2025 09:41

Princessmom222 · 04/12/2025 09:08

How old is your little one? My twins have just turned three and my brother is telling me that its unlikely they will be awarded because of their age.

I have twins and they was 4 in October I claimed for my son march 2023 and was awarded in the September but declined for mobility I put a coc in June for him and I also have his renewal forms which hopefully I won’t need to fill out…im not filling form out for nc for the girl twin as her needs are more now not hoping for a lot for her just something lol.

so don’t listen just stay positive people used to tell me my son is too young but it’s not about age its bout the care needs of the child and you know they are entitled you will get what you entitled too:)

Princessmom222 · 04/12/2025 09:41

Curlycookie5 · 04/12/2025 09:29

Has anyone had to do a uc review while waiting for disability elements to be backdated? I feel they are doing it now so they can query payments and not pay the backpay?

Yes, i had one a couple of years ago and had one last week. Its nothing to worry about, it may benefit you as with us they rushed the backpayment through for my oldest and i got the backpay 3 days later.

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 09:49

Curlycookie5 · 04/12/2025 09:29

Has anyone had to do a uc review while waiting for disability elements to be backdated? I feel they are doing it now so they can query payments and not pay the backpay?

I had one like 3 days ago they never asked for bank statements but just yes no questions to see if everything was correct on my claim I wrote to uc yesterday about being awarded no one has got back yet

Princessmom222 · 04/12/2025 10:21

Mammybear3 · 04/12/2025 09:20

She has just turned 3

Okay thats great, makes me feel better! Thank you! X

Princessmom222 · 04/12/2025 10:26

Red1991 · 04/12/2025 09:41

I have twins and they was 4 in October I claimed for my son march 2023 and was awarded in the September but declined for mobility I put a coc in June for him and I also have his renewal forms which hopefully I won’t need to fill out…im not filling form out for nc for the girl twin as her needs are more now not hoping for a lot for her just something lol.

so don’t listen just stay positive people used to tell me my son is too young but it’s not about age its bout the care needs of the child and you know they are entitled you will get what you entitled too:)

Thats good then, think my brother is just chatting bullcrap!
I hope you dont have to fill out the forms for renewal and your coc gets done asap. I also wish you the best of luck on your daughters claim too, and i hope she gets awarded.

I get the same with mine, i feel like saying to them take them all for a week and then tell me they dont have extra care needs. Its so so hard isnt it. And i know for certain the twins should be HRC as theyre needs are so high. Thank you, youve made me feel so much better x

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