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megan345 · 04/06/2025 15:12

NC - NEW CLAIM
COC - CHANGE IN CIRCUMSTANCES
MR - MANDATORY RECONSIDERATION
SD - SCAN DATE

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s39 · 08/06/2025 08:52

Mummyjustmummy · 07/06/2025 19:27

I’m MR 21/11 and have been told that I will get a decision on Monday

Good luck for tomorrow hope it’s the outcome you have been waiting for x

Mummyjustmummy · 08/06/2025 12:50

s39 · 08/06/2025 08:52

Good luck for tomorrow hope it’s the outcome you have been waiting for x

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I really hope so too.

I feel I don’t have it in me to fight for an appeal….I already had my hands full with my eldest daughter and her care needs. And now my youngest is showing signs of autism/adhd( she’s been showing signs for a few years but Iv been in denial) and always am feel rock bottom. Iv been brushing it under the carpet for a very very long time

Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:03

Mummyjustmummy · 08/06/2025 12:50

I really hope so too.

I feel I don’t have it in me to fight for an appeal….I already had my hands full with my eldest daughter and her care needs. And now my youngest is showing signs of autism/adhd( she’s been showing signs for a few years but Iv been in denial) and always am feel rock bottom. Iv been brushing it under the carpet for a very very long time

I know, it's not easy at all but let's hope it won't get to appeal for you xx

I can see my Mr is the oldest date here.
Mr sd is 15/11.
I really hope I hear something tomorrow. It has been quite a wait.I am not sure neither if I will go for an appeal .
Fingers crossed for you ladies xx

s39 · 08/06/2025 13:19

Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:03

I know, it's not easy at all but let's hope it won't get to appeal for you xx

I can see my Mr is the oldest date here.
Mr sd is 15/11.
I really hope I hear something tomorrow. It has been quite a wait.I am not sure neither if I will go for an appeal .
Fingers crossed for you ladies xx

I thought they were working in order with MRs Someone has said on above post they are on end of Nov dates I don’t understand why they have not done urs
are you waiting for letter or will you be calling tomorrow? x

megan345 · 08/06/2025 13:27

Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:03

I know, it's not easy at all but let's hope it won't get to appeal for you xx

I can see my Mr is the oldest date here.
Mr sd is 15/11.
I really hope I hear something tomorrow. It has been quite a wait.I am not sure neither if I will go for an appeal .
Fingers crossed for you ladies xx

have you called at all i was told they’re working on november 25th?xx

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Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:29

s39 · 08/06/2025 13:19

I thought they were working in order with MRs Someone has said on above post they are on end of Nov dates I don’t understand why they have not done urs
are you waiting for letter or will you be calling tomorrow? x

That was what I thought, too, but no ,apparently .
I called on Friday for the first time, and I was told they sent a message to my ds nursery, but because of the school one week break, it's taking time.
She said she had left a message for the decision maker.
I'm just hanging here.the not knowing is too hard.
I will give them tomorrow and call back on Tuesday. It will be 30 weeks for me😊

Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:31

megan345 · 08/06/2025 13:27

have you called at all i was told they’re working on november 25th?xx

Yes I called on Friday for the first time. I have really be patient 😌

megan345 · 08/06/2025 13:32

Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:31

Yes I called on Friday for the first time. I have really be patient 😌

oh bless you, thats so annoying! its annoying how they’ve said about mr’s to me and i’m not an mr but they’ve not even given me the right information it seems xx

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Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 13:33

megan345 · 08/06/2025 13:32

oh bless you, thats so annoying! its annoying how they’ve said about mr’s to me and i’m not an mr but they’ve not even given me the right information it seems xx

After all this, I just hope it worth it xx

s39 · 08/06/2025 13:46

Maybe that’s the hold up than they waiting for further information from nursery really hope it’s worth the wait & you get the award you deserve xx

Liya1xx · 08/06/2025 14:20

s39 · 08/06/2025 13:19

I thought they were working in order with MRs Someone has said on above post they are on end of Nov dates I don’t understand why they have not done urs
are you waiting for letter or will you be calling tomorrow? x

I think the school holidays has delayed probably a lot of MR where the schools have been shut and they’ve not been able to call to them which is annoying x

Motherlysweet · 08/06/2025 14:44

I just would like to know, be it positive or negative. I just want to move on.it been over a year this waiting. Though I was awarded HRC in August but CAB encourage me to ask for Mobility because ds meet all 5 test under SMI(severe mental impairment).they helped me to weigh the risk and advice I go for it.
It's been a year and 3 weeks all together😊.

Hope this week brings goodnews to all of us waiting xx

Kirstylou91 · 08/06/2025 17:24

@Lmtab any news ? 💛

Kyliejane · 08/06/2025 22:51

What is happening on there side? Renewal was done back sep 2024 because child turned 3
Feb 2025 they decided to keep child on the middle rate which was silly because he’s fully disabled sent a whole bunch of paperwork and they initially said 12 weeks. Now they saying won’t know until September 2025. Taking them a whole year? Thats bs. The initial decision makers are awful they trying to buy more time but they should just go through the paperwork properly the first time. Any way I can make a complaint?

s39 · 08/06/2025 23:20

Good luck for tomorrow everyone let’s hope the new week brings lots of awards x

megan345 · 08/06/2025 23:32

good luck everyone! who’s planning on calling tomorrow?xx

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Liya1xx · 09/06/2025 07:37

New week hopefully many more awards, I have my fingers crossed for everyone 🤞🏼 x

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:07

rang this morning still no update my end- coc-29/11 x

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BySillySloth · 09/06/2025 09:10

Finally received the birth certificate. On hold now to speak to a case manager to see what happens next . (Already was with a DM was waiting on the birth certificate ) fingers crossed crossed I hear something bk

Tiredndconfused · 09/06/2025 09:11

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:07

rang this morning still no update my end- coc-29/11 x

I've also rang this morning apparently they are taking between 25 to 30 weeks and I just have to wait 🙄🙄 utterly ridiculous
I also asked what dates they are working on and got told they can't tell me because they only get the same info we do apparently x

brc13 · 09/06/2025 09:14

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:07

rang this morning still no update my end- coc-29/11 x

Bit of a joke that you’re almost at 28weeks waiting, have they said how long you could be waiting up to? I’m in Scotland so whenever I ask they say could be weeks, could be months but they are a few months behind. I waited roughly the same as everyone on here for my littles one new claim so I’m more than likely the same for COC X

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:15

Tiredndconfused · 09/06/2025 09:11

I've also rang this morning apparently they are taking between 25 to 30 weeks and I just have to wait 🙄🙄 utterly ridiculous
I also asked what dates they are working on and got told they can't tell me because they only get the same info we do apparently x

mine was marked ‘urgent’ last monday, and everyone i know who got marked as urgent has had their decision now, really getting impatient now x

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Tiredndconfused · 09/06/2025 09:17

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:15

mine was marked ‘urgent’ last monday, and everyone i know who got marked as urgent has had their decision now, really getting impatient now x

How many weeks was it marked urgent at? I'm getting so impatient now x

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:17

Tiredndconfused · 09/06/2025 09:17

How many weeks was it marked urgent at? I'm getting so impatient now x

26+3 i’m now 27+3 x

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Tiredndconfused · 09/06/2025 09:22

megan345 · 09/06/2025 09:17

26+3 i’m now 27+3 x

I may request it's marked as urgent next week at 26 weeks. I'm so fed up of constantly getting different information x