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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 47

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Matilde08 · 20/06/2024 11:01

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SendProsecco · 28/06/2024 13:12

* update * they have corrected UC letter and statements now and the Disability Child element has been corrected πŸ˜πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«β€¦ I ended up calling ( took a while hence delayed on posting , I wanted to ask when I can expect the back pay and he told be it’s been arranged for transfer already so I should have it either Wednesday or Thursday as it takes 3-4 business days depending on the bank.. sooooooo now I’m just waiting on my youngest MR for his non verbal aggressive Autism πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ so πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ how long that will take lol … congratulations to those that got awards yesterday and today πŸ‘πŸ˜ well done Mums your doing amazing fights for your children to get what’s deserved and needed x x

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Mhow · 28/06/2024 13:20

I’m so anxious too.. been with DM since last Friday 😭. I’ve called everyday and going to call again later.. SD 13.03 really hoping it’s soon

C1502 · 28/06/2024 13:24

I’ve asked before but have lost the thread. I received a letter, less than a week after I was awarded mrc earlier this month, saying that my daughter can be registered as blind. I haven’t contacted dla yet as I’ve got to wait for an appointment for them to register her and I do not know when this will be. When it’s all been Registered and I contact them about a change what happens to my current claim. Will they have to review it all over again or will I carry on getting the mrc untill they change it?

C1502 · 28/06/2024 13:25

SendProsecco · 28/06/2024 13:12

* update * they have corrected UC letter and statements now and the Disability Child element has been corrected πŸ˜πŸ˜΅β€πŸ’«β€¦ I ended up calling ( took a while hence delayed on posting , I wanted to ask when I can expect the back pay and he told be it’s been arranged for transfer already so I should have it either Wednesday or Thursday as it takes 3-4 business days depending on the bank.. sooooooo now I’m just waiting on my youngest MR for his non verbal aggressive Autism πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ so πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ how long that will take lol … congratulations to those that got awards yesterday and today πŸ‘πŸ˜ well done Mums your doing amazing fights for your children to get what’s deserved and needed x x

How long have you had to wait for the back payment since you got the letter about them adding it onto your claim?

zoeybrooks45 · 28/06/2024 13:31

C1502 · 28/06/2024 13:24

I’ve asked before but have lost the thread. I received a letter, less than a week after I was awarded mrc earlier this month, saying that my daughter can be registered as blind. I haven’t contacted dla yet as I’ve got to wait for an appointment for them to register her and I do not know when this will be. When it’s all been Registered and I contact them about a change what happens to my current claim. Will they have to review it all over again or will I carry on getting the mrc untill they change it?

You would have to do a COC but you will still be recieve MRC till a new decision is made. It might be worth doing an MR if it’s less than a month. Either way the waiting time is 16/17 weeks same with new claims. You would have to fill out the forms agian.

SendProsecco · 28/06/2024 13:41

C1502 · 28/06/2024 13:25

How long have you had to wait for the back payment since you got the letter about them adding it onto your claim?

They only just posted the letter and sorted it this morning and the man said on the phone call it will be paid Wednesday or Thursday as the transfer is already set up… the DLA was back dated to 16-01-24 and UC have now finally sorted out the disabled element to match that date, they was fast with care element around 7-10 days and money was in my account too ( I am not claiming care allowance as that just reduces UC so pointless for me and my boys ) … I found out about dla award on 7th June and told UC on journal the same day but I was overseas so didn’t do the changes on UC until I was back home the following week .

Hope that makes sense lol

Christyyyy · 28/06/2024 13:43

Does anyone know what I need to do on UC to add the disabled child elements?

Crazyhouse4 · 28/06/2024 13:43

Christyyyy · 28/06/2024 13:43

Does anyone know what I need to do on UC to add the disabled child elements?

Here you go

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Christyyyy · 28/06/2024 13:48

@Crazyhouse4 thank you! I thought I had screen shot it before but didn't!

Life saver 🧑

MissionBiscuits · 28/06/2024 14:04

Kayleigh32 · 28/06/2024 11:57

How old is your son if you dont mind me asking, our nursery is the same ring you over the slightest thing to come pick him up my work were getting fed up with me having to shoot off and get him had to change my days and hours 3 times within the year to suit nursery as they couldnt cope with him being in full days, they have had the funding for 1:1 for 6 weeks and he done brilliant with that but then the funding stopped so couldnt carry it on for him, our gp is rubbish dont really help just say wait for alder hey, same with health visitors useless just me constantly chasing up things appointments referrals etc got mediation next month to try get this assessment done at nursery for an ehcp going forward to his new school, is the 3 year waiting list for everyone or just your area? My heart breaks for you the struggle is realπŸ’”

He's 6, he wasn't referred until 5 as he doesn't have any significant gross-motor delays. That's the waiting time in our area, but I think it's similar in a lot of places. It was even worse where we lived previously, the LA had restrictions on how many referrals a school could do in a year, which is why my DDs needs weren't addressed until we moved, even though they'd know since nursery that she had difficulties, they weren't 'bad enough'. The medical stuff is something else, it's not hard to see why we women diminish things and soldier on when a 10 year old with long-term symptoms is being dismissed or accused of lying! The struggle is very real, thank you for your kind words, I really hope your little man gets what he needs very soon and you can start thriving. ❀

MissionBiscuits · 28/06/2024 14:30

MrsMacmumto6 · 28/06/2024 13:00

I’m 20/3 so here’s to being on tenterhooks together! I’m on holiday with my 6 (3 on the ASD pathway) you’d think I’d be able to relax but nope. I don’t want to ring until 20 weeks as last year for one of my others it took 22 weeks … just had the dreaded EHCP assessment declined due to school (who are supportive) not sending enough evidence GREATπŸ™ˆ mediation declined, appeal submitted this morning. Let’s hope they gave the DM more information than the local authority because my little boy is 5 non verbal, in nappies and falls over at almost every step. So hard to get the support we need and as a teacher I feel like I’m destroying my career by pushing for what they need

I've been having a discussion with someone about EHCPs on the thread, most likely the real reason is there's no funding left for this year. Our Sendco used to be on the panel for the LA and from what I understand, unless there's a specific diagnosis with a full report (i.e. it would obviously be illegal discrimination) it'll be a blanket no until next academic year. That is assuming your LA has any budget for SEND at all of course and that whoever is in government next Friday doesn't annihilate it all together.

Sorry, I wish I had something more positive say! Our SD is 14/3, so hopefully our turns will come very soon.

Mamof2devils · 28/06/2024 14:40

Its getting to the time Someone needs to make a new thread 😬

C1502 · 28/06/2024 14:48

SendProsecco · 28/06/2024 13:41

They only just posted the letter and sorted it this morning and the man said on the phone call it will be paid Wednesday or Thursday as the transfer is already set up… the DLA was back dated to 16-01-24 and UC have now finally sorted out the disabled element to match that date, they was fast with care element around 7-10 days and money was in my account too ( I am not claiming care allowance as that just reduces UC so pointless for me and my boys ) … I found out about dla award on 7th June and told UC on journal the same day but I was overseas so didn’t do the changes on UC until I was back home the following week .

Hope that makes sense lol

Similar dates to me then, I got awarded on the 6th June and it’s got back dated from the 8/01. I contacted uc on the 6th of June and they sent 2 letters on the 23rd that both care and disability has been added I just havnt heard anything about a back payment so hopefully it shouldn’t be too long now x

MotherAndDSon · 28/06/2024 15:31

Any 22/3 scan buddies that called today and got some new update?

BusyMamma4 · 28/06/2024 15:50

MotherAndDSon · 28/06/2024 15:31

Any 22/3 scan buddies that called today and got some new update?

Hi I’m 28/3 so not far behind you, I was told my claim is with the new claim department and is open but I have no idea what this means lol

MrsMacmumto6 · 28/06/2024 15:51

MissionBiscuits · 28/06/2024 14:30

I've been having a discussion with someone about EHCPs on the thread, most likely the real reason is there's no funding left for this year. Our Sendco used to be on the panel for the LA and from what I understand, unless there's a specific diagnosis with a full report (i.e. it would obviously be illegal discrimination) it'll be a blanket no until next academic year. That is assuming your LA has any budget for SEND at all of course and that whoever is in government next Friday doesn't annihilate it all together.

Sorry, I wish I had something more positive say! Our SD is 14/3, so hopefully our turns will come very soon.

I would agree if it was the end of tax year, they declined my older son until I raised a stage 1 formal complaint, was given an EP assessment within days of the complaint. This was before April and they pushed it through as I’d also involved the director of children’s services and declined mediation ready for appeal. I know the process very well but the reason is specific to the school not providing enough evidence of SEN and basically saying he is only slightly below expectations when last week they were asking me to keep him behind a year (he’s a twin and that’s absolutely not happening) I have SAR’d the school today ready for appeal and will be giving the SENCO more than my moneys worth the day I land back in the country. Just worried they’ve done the same with the DM at which point I’ll be raising a complaint against the school itself

Kayleigh32 · 28/06/2024 16:04

Guys weve just been awarded had the text saying weve qualified after me calling up this morning just have to wait for a letter now to say what hes been give over the moon πŸ‘πŸΌ thanks for all the support on here ❀️

Hay1312 · 28/06/2024 16:04

Scan date 13/03. Wasn't going to phone until next week but caved and just did! Spoke to a lovely jolly man. He has told me it is with a decision maker. How long did everybody wait after knowing with a decision maker? Feeling nervous! X

OneGreenBird · 28/06/2024 16:22

Kayleigh32 · 28/06/2024 16:04

Guys weve just been awarded had the text saying weve qualified after me calling up this morning just have to wait for a letter now to say what hes been give over the moon πŸ‘πŸΌ thanks for all the support on here ❀️

Amazing news! Congrats ❀
What was your scan date?

PollyH3 · 28/06/2024 16:25

Kayleigh32 · 28/06/2024 16:04

Guys weve just been awarded had the text saying weve qualified after me calling up this morning just have to wait for a letter now to say what hes been give over the moon πŸ‘πŸΌ thanks for all the support on here ❀️

Amazing. So pleased for you.

I just rang, over and hour to get through, and they said it's still with a decision maker, but she would email the decision maker and ask if they can look at it. So looks like another weekend of not knowing and hoping for a decision next week.

MotherAndDSon · 28/06/2024 16:35

BusyMamma4 · 28/06/2024 15:50

Hi I’m 28/3 so not far behind you, I was told my claim is with the new claim department and is open but I have no idea what this means lol

Sounds like not too long for you πŸ™πŸ» Good luck and hope you get a decision soon.Xx

I also don't know why I call cos I end up not understanding what they mean or forget why I called πŸ˜…

I guess I'm just waiting to hear that we have been awarded🀭

MotherAndDSon · 28/06/2024 16:37

Kayleigh32 · 28/06/2024 16:04

Guys weve just been awarded had the text saying weve qualified after me calling up this morning just have to wait for a letter now to say what hes been give over the moon πŸ‘πŸΌ thanks for all the support on here ❀️

Congratulations 🎊 what's your scan date and was it a new claim? Xx

BusyMamma4 · 28/06/2024 16:58

MotherAndDSon · 28/06/2024 16:35

Sounds like not too long for you πŸ™πŸ» Good luck and hope you get a decision soon.Xx

I also don't know why I call cos I end up not understanding what they mean or forget why I called πŸ˜…

I guess I'm just waiting to hear that we have been awarded🀭

Thank you! Same to you too 🀞
oh I’m exactly the same I’ve only rung 3 times and every time I get off the phone confused and still not knowing anything πŸ˜…
I think he was lying to me on the phone, he did say new claims are currently taking 15-17 weeks but we’ll wait and see
this wait is killing me now lol xx

SendProsecco · 28/06/2024 17:29

C1502 · 28/06/2024 14:48

Similar dates to me then, I got awarded on the 6th June and it’s got back dated from the 8/01. I contacted uc on the 6th of June and they sent 2 letters on the 23rd that both care and disability has been added I just havnt heard anything about a back payment so hopefully it shouldn’t be too long now x

Pop a message on your journal as ask when you might be able to expect the backdate pay … it should be sent separately to your normal UC dates. Or you can call and ask. I got the carer money a few days after the letter ( 4 I think ) and sounds like it’s set up for the same with the child disability too.

Matilde08 · 28/06/2024 17:33

Garfield456 · 27/06/2024 23:34

@Matilde08 I hope your children enjoyed sports day/prom. Hopefully you get some advice that will help your case for MR. Il keep checking in to see how you are getting on 😊 x

Thank you dear πŸ’πŸ«‚πŸ’

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