With you asking about medication i was wondering if being on melatonin can be a disadvantage in the claim, obviously the melatonin is to help them sleep so technically shouldn't be up with them in the night but my childs still up even with them. Theyre 13 and I need to be awake when they are due to how they behave whilst awake eg sets fires with lighters they stash, breaks into downstairs it has to be locked due to them taking food fresh or frozen and does try to cook, leaves the house and wanders the area, draws on walls ect they have a smoke alarm in bedroom that was fit by the local fire department and I have indoor cctv just outside the bedroom as they slap and bites theirself, theyll do this in the day or night though and is only a brief outline not to.mention meltdowns and verbal and physical outbursts and smashing things up, they have depression, anxiety and tics and currently awaiting help from speech and language and autism and adhd paperwork to get to panel. They soil theirself (camhs think its sensory) and so I do have to also wake them to change, shower and change bedding, does sometimes use adult nappies but is very reluctant and will often take them off.