@Fee89 With my MR I wrote a letter saying that my daughter basically wouldn't get through the day if I didn't do the things I did for her, I mean in the past I've handed her medication and a drink for her to take and when next dose was due she hadn't even taken the earlier dose, and that its well documented that girls mask in social settings, the problem is that most people who answer the phone are less than useless and I don't think they'd be able to help me, and now they've changed the PIP process, can't just ring up for the forms now have to go through a telephone assessment and I don't think she'd be able to do that, my niece had to do this and when my SIL was helping her with answers the caller was telling my SIL that my niece had to do this by herself. I can't see her doing that, and the thought of her struggling stresses me out so at the moment I've just put it to the back of my mind until I hear about the DLA. xx