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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 40

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Fee89 · 21/04/2024 16:37

DLA WAITING TIME 2024

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Namechange303333311 · 25/04/2024 13:35

Parking here to keep an eye out for when claims later in January start getting processed. Scan date 22/1 so hoping it’ll only be a few weeks. I’m really anxious about it now I’ve just had to give up my main job as it wasn’t feasible with having a child that goes to school part time or gets excluded regularly.

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 13:36

Matilde08 · 25/04/2024 13:30

Thanks... Well, had a call back from the manager about my case and now I'm at the point where I think it could be declined. They do additional check ups about if he's even eligible for this payment. Was honest and let them know we have widows pension as his dad passed away and he's eligible for that. It's like child maintenance from country in case one of the parents have passed away before child turns 18. They called me about this already before..more than two months ago to get more information. That's why my boys claim is stucked there for so long. He said, they will try to check everything as soon as possible, but if I'm not hearing anything back from them following 6 weeks, I should call them again. At this point I will prepare myself It's declined as I feel super tired and down. For me it's actually to get that status that I'm looking after my special need child.

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Why would that have an input on his claim? You cant claim disability through that 🤔. Surly that isnt right. I think you need to arrange a meeting with cab and get them involved to help you. Im so sorry 😔. Sending huge hug xxx

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Fee89 · 25/04/2024 13:40

Namechange303333311 · 25/04/2024 13:35

Parking here to keep an eye out for when claims later in January start getting processed. Scan date 22/1 so hoping it’ll only be a few weeks. I’m really anxious about it now I’ve just had to give up my main job as it wasn’t feasible with having a child that goes to school part time or gets excluded regularly.

Hopefully you hear something within next 2 weeks 🌸

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Persianpoppy · 25/04/2024 13:41

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 12:13

Ah its not over yet. Dont think like that. Some just take a little longer 🥰🌸 xx

Think my anxiety is just sky high today and I'm overly sensitive to everything! Had a little cry but I'm okay now 😂❤️ xx

Matilde08 · 25/04/2024 13:47

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 13:36

Why would that have an input on his claim? You cant claim disability through that 🤔. Surly that isnt right. I think you need to arrange a meeting with cab and get them involved to help you. Im so sorry 😔. Sending huge hug xxx

It shouldn't as it's nothing about him to be special needs and for me to be his carer. It's about that his dad unfortunately died while he wad 3and half years old and I was left with four dependents myself.

Persianpoppy · 25/04/2024 13:56

Kaz87 · 25/04/2024 13:16

Ohh @Persianpoppy I'm sorry that there's no updates for you. Didn't he say that it's with DM? I know its disheartening but they said to call on Friday if there's no news so you'll have to call tomorrow and demand answers. You're 16weeks today. I really hope it goes well for you 🙏 il will be thinking of you tomorrow ❤️

I really really appreciate that!
I just think my emotions are really high due to my anxiety but I was okay once I downed two double espresso's 👀😂 xx

Ncheetham01 · 25/04/2024 13:58

Waiting1901 · 24/04/2024 18:39

Do ring and let me know how you get on hope yours is sorted for you

So rang after lunch answered litterally straight away was so shocked. First guy I spoke to said that it's taking 23 weeks so looking at 26th July then got put through to change bank details and asked him for an update and he said coc taking 13-14weeks and my sons is in a holding pile buy should hear by late may early June. Honestly don't think they know what they are saying.

Waiting1901 · 25/04/2024 14:11

Ncheetham01 · 25/04/2024 13:58

So rang after lunch answered litterally straight away was so shocked. First guy I spoke to said that it's taking 23 weeks so looking at 26th July then got put through to change bank details and asked him for an update and he said coc taking 13-14weeks and my sons is in a holding pile buy should hear by late may early June. Honestly don't think they know what they are saying.

What a difference in timescale they gave you I really think they just use and number that comes into there head I rang today was told it had been flagged Monday and highlighted for DM that I should hear in few days but I will not hold my breath I am going to ring everyday for update annoy them lol @Ncheetham01

Jempeech · 25/04/2024 14:11

I rang today on my break. Scan date is the 20th of feb. She said it’s with a case manager and will be looked at in May . She said 15 weeks average time she was really nice .

UmElise · 25/04/2024 14:15

TiredTilly · 25/04/2024 10:05

i can’t believe it im in shock feel almost sick. saw a pending payment into my acc from DLA😮😮 I think I stared at it for an hour to make sure I wasn’t seeing things 😢 I really thought they were never going to process my application honestly.
it looks like MRC which I’m content with even though I believe it should be HRC. I have zero fight in me 😂 I really hope it’s more than a year award 🤞🤞
Gosh I want to say thank you for everyone’s support this thread kept me sane. And @Fee89 you’ve been amaaazinggg I’ve woken up past few days to check on you and I see you’ve checked on me first 🥹 your a diamond 💎 your kids and friends are lucky to have you in their life 💕💕
@Matilde08 I really think you need to speak to a manager and push things. I think for me they processed my claim on Monday after I spoke to the manager and really pushed for it.

Woooooow 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Iam so very pleased for you. Congratulations 🥳

Jaffacakesrlife · 25/04/2024 14:19

@Waiting1901 thank you.
I read wait times for COC are long. I been trying to call but can't get through.

TiredTilly · 25/04/2024 14:31

Matilde08 · 25/04/2024 13:30

Thanks... Well, had a call back from the manager about my case and now I'm at the point where I think it could be declined. They do additional check ups about if he's even eligible for this payment. Was honest and let them know we have widows pension as his dad passed away and he's eligible for that. It's like child maintenance from country in case one of the parents have passed away before child turns 18. They called me about this already before..more than two months ago to get more information. That's why my boys claim is stucked there for so long. He said, they will try to check everything as soon as possible, but if I'm not hearing anything back from them following 6 weeks, I should call them again. At this point I will prepare myself It's declined as I feel super tired and down. For me it's actually to get that status that I'm looking after my special need child.

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Oh hun I’m so sorry 🙁 it’s strange the 2 things have nothing to do with each other?! DLA is completely separate from everything else. It’s not a decline it’s can’t be, they wouldn’t do all this work and chase around and want extra things just to give you a decline. Just like the NI numbers, if it was a decline they wouldn’t bother getting an NI number they would just send a letter with decline.
so sorry your going through that. Really hoping you hear soon 💕💐

TiredTilly · 25/04/2024 14:32

UmElise · 25/04/2024 14:15

Woooooow 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Iam so very pleased for you. Congratulations 🥳

🥹❤️

Bossofthehouse · 25/04/2024 14:33

I haven’t called yet this time but is there a new phone line system? Everyone seems to be getting through straight away but last year it would be 1-2 hours waiting to talk to someone

Matilde08 · 25/04/2024 14:45

TiredTilly · 25/04/2024 14:31

Oh hun I’m so sorry 🙁 it’s strange the 2 things have nothing to do with each other?! DLA is completely separate from everything else. It’s not a decline it’s can’t be, they wouldn’t do all this work and chase around and want extra things just to give you a decline. Just like the NI numbers, if it was a decline they wouldn’t bother getting an NI number they would just send a letter with decline.
so sorry your going through that. Really hoping you hear soon 💕💐

Thank you 🌷 I really hope they will do those check ups properly and realise it's nothing to do with his special needs and that I need status to be his carer as he needs extra support. Just had a proper breakdown and can't even remember last time would cry so much.. I know I should keep positive and think clearly and just wait........
But I'm extremely happy for you, honestly, after such a long wait you have had your decision 🌷🌷🌷💐🎉🎉🎉

Marj3 · 25/04/2024 15:03

hi, just wondering, i called today and asked if my form can be prioritised due to certain reasons. I had a call back and bless them they have now put it as urgent. Does anyone know how long it normally is when this happens? I didt ask cause I just felt relieved it will get done quicker. Hope everyones well :)

TiredTilly · 25/04/2024 15:14

Matilde08 · 25/04/2024 14:45

Thank you 🌷 I really hope they will do those check ups properly and realise it's nothing to do with his special needs and that I need status to be his carer as he needs extra support. Just had a proper breakdown and can't even remember last time would cry so much.. I know I should keep positive and think clearly and just wait........
But I'm extremely happy for you, honestly, after such a long wait you have had your decision 🌷🌷🌷💐🎉🎉🎉

Awww let it out it’s ok to have a cry. You’re so strong having to deal with this and death of your partner. Waiting is all you can do now it’s out of your hands you’ve given them everything ❤️xx

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 16:04

@Matilde08 I honestly hope you are okay 😔. Wish there was something we could do for you, but were all here to support you and i wont leave your (internet) side until you are out the other end 💕

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Fee89 · 25/04/2024 16:06

@Marj3 can i be nosey and ask your scan date? I think once its marked as priority its usually a within a week depending if they need other info or not x

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TiredTilly · 25/04/2024 16:12

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 16:04

@Matilde08 I honestly hope you are okay 😔. Wish there was something we could do for you, but were all here to support you and i wont leave your (internet) side until you are out the other end 💕

Yup me neither lol I’m waiting here till you and @Matilde08 have your awards 💕

Marj3 · 25/04/2024 16:15

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 16:06

@Marj3 can i be nosey and ask your scan date? I think once its marked as priority its usually a within a week depending if they need other info or not x

Thank you for getting back to me :) 12 february. I no iv not waited as long as others. Just circumstances, I thought be worth asking :) glad I did ask. Only prob is I havt been able to send the new, another diagnosis, letter in yet as still waiting for it so dont think that going to help me 😖
Hope you havt been waiting too long for yourself. Does cause anxiety this process, more the fact encase if doest get accepeted and have to do a mr 🙈

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 16:24

Marj3 · 25/04/2024 16:15

Thank you for getting back to me :) 12 february. I no iv not waited as long as others. Just circumstances, I thought be worth asking :) glad I did ask. Only prob is I havt been able to send the new, another diagnosis, letter in yet as still waiting for it so dont think that going to help me 😖
Hope you havt been waiting too long for yourself. Does cause anxiety this process, more the fact encase if doest get accepeted and have to do a mr 🙈

Think if they tried to reject her claim, diabetes nurse, senco and myself will be breathing fire 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Marj3 · 25/04/2024 16:48

Fee89 · 25/04/2024 16:24

Think if they tried to reject her claim, diabetes nurse, senco and myself will be breathing fire 🤦🏻‍♀️

I think this may have been on the wrong message 😂 iv looked through the thread. Just want to say you are a amazing support for all these ladies as are others :) its lovely

Kaz87 · 25/04/2024 17:05

Persianpoppy · 25/04/2024 13:56

I really really appreciate that!
I just think my emotions are really high due to my anxiety but I was okay once I downed two double espresso's 👀😂 xx

Tomorrow is going to be your day 🥰 xx I hope you feeling better now xx

Matilde08 · 25/04/2024 17:17

@Fee89 @TiredTilly thank you so much both of you 💐✨️🫂 I do appreciate your emotional support and care here ❤️