@Jempeech mine is 3 yo (44 months) he was born with coccaine and heroine in his system (he's adopted), suspected Feotal Alcohol Syndrome, suspected ADD / ADHD, been to see a private consultant back in Jan (5 page report) waiting for community paeds (but can take up to 80 weeks hence why we took him to private consultant), he's on referral for Education Psychologist via nursery, he's been reviewed by inclusion team and they referring him for EHCP - was at SaLT last week (after 9 month wait) although they say his S&L is on target they did say his understanding / cognitive / attention is way below and also said they he's likely to have ADD - still in pull-up pants as he just won't potty train (tried and tried) - he'll go to anyone (which worries me senseless) and to say he's hyper is a vast understatement - even this morning at 5am he was up and about and the houses 2 miles away could hear him I'm sure. (Got awarded LRC for his toilet needs - nothing else - hence the MR - did they even read the rest ? )