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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 40

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Fee89 · 21/04/2024 16:37

DLA WAITING TIME 2024

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RayahB · 22/04/2024 06:57

Jempeech · 22/04/2024 06:54

@RayahB it still well might be . Did you add who knows the child ?I think if they don’t get lots of evidence they go down that route ! From having children with SEN and working with them that’s what I’ve seen . I work in education and we have a few kids who’s applied for DLA successfully without them contacting us at school ! I think if you have the diagnosis proof and have filled out needs then it’s self explanatory that you do meet the criteria . Don’t know if the DM’s all think this way ! Good luck !

I didn't 🤦‍♀️ this is what I mean I just thought because I had that letter and I included a report from the school that was sent to the consultant, that would be enough. They do have the schools details but they aren't very supportive and that's a whole other matter. I've also since sent a sleep diary. Fingers crossed I've not messed it up

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 22/04/2024 06:57

It's finally Monday morning..... Who's calling today?
I will be but not til 10-10.30am ish depending on how busy I am at work.
Hoping there's lots of positive news before I get through x

Jempeech · 22/04/2024 07:05

@RayahB yeah schools can be very difficult at times if children mask . My son didn’t know the meaning and was in a special needs school early on but my daughter masked well until she was about 6. Now she’s getting worse and the school are more supportive and like oh yes I see that now !!! I’m like well I wasn’t lying she just saved it for me ! I didn’t have loads of evidence for her compared to my son who I had literally a folder jam packed with evidence. I’m just intrigued to see what others put when they get declined etc so I’m ready x

LancsMcG · 22/04/2024 07:20

Jempeech · 22/04/2024 06:44

@LancsMcG hi sorry if I’m sounding nosey (I am) haha, but what needs age evidence have you applied for . I just can’t work out how mine will go x

@Jempeech mine is 3 yo (44 months) he was born with coccaine and heroine in his system (he's adopted), suspected Feotal Alcohol Syndrome, suspected ADD / ADHD, been to see a private consultant back in Jan (5 page report) waiting for community paeds (but can take up to 80 weeks hence why we took him to private consultant), he's on referral for Education Psychologist via nursery, he's been reviewed by inclusion team and they referring him for EHCP - was at SaLT last week (after 9 month wait) although they say his S&L is on target they did say his understanding / cognitive / attention is way below and also said they he's likely to have ADD - still in pull-up pants as he just won't potty train (tried and tried) - he'll go to anyone (which worries me senseless) and to say he's hyper is a vast understatement - even this morning at 5am he was up and about and the houses 2 miles away could hear him I'm sure. (Got awarded LRC for his toilet needs - nothing else - hence the MR - did they even read the rest ? )

LancsMcG · 22/04/2024 07:23

@Jempeech oh and to add teh inclusion team (via SENCO referral) put him at 12-18 months in his understanding etc / 18-24 in two other categories, and 24-30 in terms of his mobility

Emzi538 · 22/04/2024 07:29

Morning
Good luck to all those who call today :-)
Fingers crossed for lots of awards :-)

Mammy1979 · 22/04/2024 07:44

Parking Scan Date 11/01, too nervous to call as increasingly anxious that it will be declined. Good luck to all you wonderful parents on here, it’s a hard slog but fingers crossed for some light at the end of the tunnel xxx

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 07:46

Good luck @Anxiouslywaitingmum @Emzi538 keep us updated when you call. Good luck @Channy2777 This has to be your week. Good luck everyone else xx

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Jellyjade3 · 22/04/2024 07:51

Hey new here. 😬 but been watching this thread. Scan date was 4/1 for my son. Called dla yesterday. The guy was lovely down the phone but I’m informed me the wait is over 20weeks! Said it’s not even with anyone still and no decision. Wil know 3rd of June..

Jempeech · 22/04/2024 07:55

@LancsMcG I would definitely be fighting that one . We have a child in school very very similar he’s slightly older but I know his adoptive parents got awarded HRC AND HRM!!!!! So they need to pull their fingers out for your child. X

Jellyjade3 · 22/04/2024 08:04

I tried with him over the phone. Said my son had it before 3 years ago then declined him the last year as waited on being diagnosed so put in again in Jan. but he just kept saying 3rd June. That’s 5 months. It’s so stressful. I sent in all his letters,information proof. They also stopped him for two years without dla when we had received for a year. If anything he is worse.But now it’s confirmed so you lovely people think I should take that further? Hope u all hear soon. It’s been a struggle.fingers crossed

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 08:08

@Jellyjade3 Sounds like you have been through the ringer 🤦🏻‍♀️. Things change with Dla so quick, if you called friday morning example then friday evening it could be with a d.m. Give them call at 9 and see what progress its made over weekend x

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Emzi538 · 22/04/2024 08:13

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 07:46

Good luck @Anxiouslywaitingmum @Emzi538 keep us updated when you call. Good luck @Channy2777 This has to be your week. Good luck everyone else xx

I'm not calling today lol waiting til next week lol x

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 08:14

Emzi538 · 22/04/2024 08:13

I'm not calling today lol waiting til next week lol x

Gosh you have some will power 😂 share? Xx

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Kaz87 · 22/04/2024 08:21

Mammy1979 · 22/04/2024 07:44

Parking Scan Date 11/01, too nervous to call as increasingly anxious that it will be declined. Good luck to all you wonderful parents on here, it’s a hard slog but fingers crossed for some light at the end of the tunnel xxx

That's exactly how I feel x I'd rather wait it out x

Kaz87 · 22/04/2024 08:22

Jellyjade3 · 22/04/2024 07:51

Hey new here. 😬 but been watching this thread. Scan date was 4/1 for my son. Called dla yesterday. The guy was lovely down the phone but I’m informed me the wait is over 20weeks! Said it’s not even with anyone still and no decision. Wil know 3rd of June..

Hi 👋 same scan date as me. Were the lines open yesterday then? 🤔

Channy2777 · 22/04/2024 08:30

I have put in for dla twice before son got diagnosed with asd at the age of 8 junior school didn't help even when working 2 years behind said he didn't need ehcp until secondary school basically they couldn't be bothered with all the work involved got ehcp at age 11 at secondary school got worse now getting excluded walking out of class ta with him every lesson hope we can get a result this time now age 13 same food everyday real bad sensory problem have to keep telling him to do personal care as will not touch soap produces doesn't go to bed till 2/3 in the morning melt downs getting him up for school hope we hear lots of awards today good luck

Justkeepsplashing · 22/04/2024 08:37

Morning all! 🅿️

Scan date 19/12
( Application on hold as they await information from school. Daughter masks well and not officially diagnosed yet so no evidence from professionals. I’ve sent a diary and additional information as her behaviour and emotions became worse but other than that, nothing to back the application up).

Hoping for good news for all.

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 08:38

How is everyone elses morning going 🤦🏻‍♀️ telling my 17 yr old her temp is fine and get her butt to her apprentice (stayed up late on animal crossing). Arguing with the boy that he's not moving to America to be a cop just so he can get a gun, then asking if police in scotland need to like haggis & irnbru 🤦🏻‍♀️ (he's 12 & not funny). Telling the 10 yr old its too cold for shorts this morning, she tried proving it wasnt by using the thermometer on her legs 😫

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Kaz87 · 22/04/2024 08:50

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 08:38

How is everyone elses morning going 🤦🏻‍♀️ telling my 17 yr old her temp is fine and get her butt to her apprentice (stayed up late on animal crossing). Arguing with the boy that he's not moving to America to be a cop just so he can get a gun, then asking if police in scotland need to like haggis & irnbru 🤦🏻‍♀️ (he's 12 & not funny). Telling the 10 yr old its too cold for shorts this morning, she tried proving it wasnt by using the thermometer on her legs 😫

Happy Monday! Thermometer on her legs 🤣 made me chuckle x

Jellyjade3 · 22/04/2024 08:52

Hey I called Friday morning to be told 20 weeks and no one has looked at it yet x

Dee1606 · 22/04/2024 08:56

Parking 26/01. I've missed 2 threads 🤦🏼‍♀️😅 I've refrained from calling since having our scan date. We will be on week 13 on Friday, what's the earliest everyone has called to find out progress?

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 09:01

Kaz87 · 22/04/2024 08:50

Happy Monday! Thermometer on her legs 🤣 made me chuckle x

At that point i just knew to walk away 😂 x

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Kaz87 · 22/04/2024 09:04

Fee89 · 22/04/2024 09:01

At that point i just knew to walk away 😂 x

Yep I know that feeling especially with my 7yo x

Kaz87 · 22/04/2024 09:05

Good morning, @Persianpoppy are you ringing this morning ? X