@SAM2409 @UmElise thank you both, I’m hoping to get her into a mainstream school, it’s connected to her nursery and my other children go there so I know they will be good with her, I’m just hoping that she is able to start school with the support she needs and being diagnosed, but I’m wondering if I’m being to hopeful because we only have a year and 4 months before she would start primary school, loads of people keep telling me that the paediatrician won’t diagnose her and I will have to wait til she’s 5 to be referred to camhs and that’s a 4 year wait, but nursery has told me to keep pushing with the paediatric appointment because she really needs to be seen and that she needs the help sooner rather than later