@Fee89 @kristie198 @Jadexxx92 so am I doing the right thing not taking what she said as gospel? No I didn't ask what date yl the other 3 days I wish I had now! Although I'm sure if I'd have quoted that to Kim she wouldn't have been pleased! Anywho onwards and upwards it's not a decline she did say no decision made yet so will run with that for now!! Thank you ladies, can't begin to tell you how supported I feel being in this group heart 💖