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61 replies

2boysnamedR · 04/02/2015 15:10

Just that. At what cost mentally I can't say.

Hate list - I'm coming for you

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adrianna22 · 04/02/2015 15:20

You won!!!!!!!!!!!!

Congratulations! Grin

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chocnomorechoc · 04/02/2015 15:37

Fantastic news.

JJXM · 04/02/2015 15:38

Congratulations - now get everything in place and prepare for your revenge - complain and bring them to account. Hopefully you won't have to go through this again Thanks

kojackscat · 04/02/2015 15:39

Fantastic, such great news!

fairgame · 04/02/2015 15:41

Well done 2boys!! I'm pleased after all the shit you have put up with.

uggerthebugger · 04/02/2015 15:53

Well done. Give yourself a breather if you can - and when you look back on this further down the line, you won't be counting the cost - you'll know it was you that made the difference.

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chaiselounger · 04/02/2015 16:01

Congratulations op.
I have Seen your name, but for me and others, please give a bit more detail as to exactly what you have 'won'.

Ineedmorepatience · 04/02/2015 16:21

YAAAAAAYYYY!!! Awesome 2boys am soooo happy for you Grin Grin

Be kind to yourself Wine Cake Brew Flowers

KOKOagainandagain · 04/02/2015 16:34

So pleased this was you Smile

Now, please relax ... Wine Cake

Icimoi · 04/02/2015 16:43

Quite right too! Great news.

Tambaboy · 04/02/2015 16:48

Fantastic news, well done!

bedelia · 04/02/2015 16:58

Really happy for you 2boys [biggrin] I saw your earlier post just before I went out, so really glad to find you have your decision.

StarlightMcKenzee · 04/02/2015 17:08

Oh thank goodness, though you probably know that 'wins' fill me with anger at there nearly always shoukd have been no fight.

Hope you find a way to come down. Though I know it's a relief, it is reasonable to be thoroughly pissed off too.

2boysnamedR · 04/02/2015 17:40

I won a tribunal against a nil.

Ds is 7 in year two. When he started school I asked about a statement. Lovely senco told me "you will never get a statement or diagnosis for ds. He has to be at least two years behind before we can act"

Well I had been battling since he was 18 months old.

I appealed for a satatory assessment in year one (after being told ds was where the school expected a child entering reception year to be)

That was refused. We appealed. We was told " you'd better have a good solicitor" by the la - just before they conceded.

Ds was assessed but given a nil in the beginning of 2014. He has dyspraxia. That was totally ignored. He has sensory issues - ignored.

Appealed the nil and won.

It's been about 1.5 years to appeal, a lifetime of being ignored. Systematically ignored.

It wasn't easy but from the first step of thinking " I can't sit back and watch my kid fail for two years" I have had zero choice

This is victory thanks to mnsn. I would have believed that senco otherwise.

Of course it's bitter sweet I should never had to do this, no one should. Plus ds really is as bad as I though. Never nice always being right on that front.

Off to buy a dartboard and gear up to fight a crappy statement as they will out if spite. I can't believe spite hasn't played a big part of this "how dare you question us you silly little mummy"

Who looks stupid now?

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pannetone · 04/02/2015 17:58

So pleased to hear your news but Sad and Angry that it has taken so much time and cost you so much.

chaiselounger · 04/02/2015 18:07

Well done you!
But am so saddened to hear of your fight.
Fighting for many years really takes it out of you, but no one ever recognises, acknowledges, or recompensed you for that!!

senvet · 04/02/2015 18:18

Can I scream? With relief for you this time!

If you are in Herts PM me tomorrow and I'll tell you what to expect next.

Otherwise very very good luck for the next stage.

2boysnamedR · 04/02/2015 18:31

I'm not in Herts. Very tempted to out my la. Very.

One day this is going to the press, but not today ;0)

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ouryve · 04/02/2015 18:33

!!!!!Wine

senvet · 04/02/2015 18:37

Thaaank the Lord it isn't Herts.
Have wonderful evening.

Babieseverywhere · 04/02/2015 19:56

Congratulations Grin

chaiselounger · 04/02/2015 19:58

so you're not one of the home counties - Berks, bucks , hertz. why are those any worse than anywhere else???????!!!!!

chaiselounger · 04/02/2015 20:02

survey: in a nicely competitively way - which mn'ers have been screwed the most , by which LEA?

which mn'er had been screwed, over the most number of years!!!

Wink let's not. would probably push most of us over the edge!!