It was in the magazine last week and was written by Sophie Walker who has also written a book about about training for marathons while raising her daughter who has Aspergers. Its a really good article & the first paragraph about a daily battle over teeth brushing got to me as thats what happens in our house.
I've got a Times subscription (posh eh?) and I've copied & pasted stuff for people before. Let me know if you want it but replying on this thread & I'll pm everyone with it in the morning.