moosemama - sounds like we've both had a rotten week. Mine's been ongoing annoying, but horrible today.
I certainly hope others have had a better week or even day than it's been here.
I managed to get out last night for a couple hours with a few friends, and when I got home, DH was all stressed out because DS3 had been fussing and threw up. So laying on the guilt about how DS3 was miserable and crying for me, but he didn't want to spoil my evening by calling me. And then DS3 spent the entire night throwing up everywhere, so I was literally up most of the night, and being thrown up on. Hoorah. sigh And then he has the nerve to drink some of my 
that I had set aside for myself for tonight as "he's stressed because he had to deal with it by himself while I was out." Yeah, guilt trip 2, and he's drinking my FFS!! he says "oh we'll buy you some more in town tomorrow before I go" even though he KNOWS we are completely skint (which is why I bought the bottle before and put it aside) and can't waste money right now on it. And he's off to a wedding this weekend, where he'll be drinking practically every night, but he's drank mine here. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
DH has left today to go out of town to a friend's wedding. The boys and I were invited as well, but DS2 couldn't cope with a couple nights in a hotel so we agreed that DH would go and I'd stay home with the boys(and let's face it with DS3 sick, we couldn't have gone anyway). The kitchen is a mess (DH insisted we wait to clean it last night, said he'd help early this morning, but didn't and I couldn't get to it while child was throwing up), the dog tore up a bunch of stuff and it's all over the kitchen floor, muddy pawprints and footprints all over the kitchen and hallway. Laundry piled up, ironing to be done. DH went off because I asked him to take the rubbish out before he went so I could get the other cleaning done. I am exhausted and not in the mood for an argument, and he was going out of his way to be miserable and uncooperative. When he left, I told him not to bother coming back. 
I am just sick and tired of having a stupid stroppy teenager in the house instead of a grown adult who helps shoulder the responsibility. The only reason I got the kitchen cleaned up (not perfect, but at least passable!) is because I had to put the Tigger Movie in the DVD player and let the boys watch it, but still had to pop back into the room every couple minutes as DS2 is not by any stretch of the imagination capable of sitting quietly and watching a movie.
I want to point out that I would NEVER have been able to go for a couple days out of town. DH would never be able to cope with the boys. He gets through a couple hours in the evening, but only if DS3 is already in bed and DS2 is ready for bed or in bed. And even then he gets stressy over every little thing. If I had even left for the DAY and left everything undone and not bothered to help get things in order first, DH would have come unglued. But because I'm the one who copes with everything, it all lands on me.
Okay. massive rant, for which I apologise. 
I have NOT had a good day. He's texted me saying "I love you." which I've ignored. I'm not interested in seeing him, speaking to him, or anything at all. I'm using this weekend to decide if I want to allow him back into the house on Sunday or have his bags packed and drop him off when I drop off his mum at her house. Personally, I'm leaning towards the second at the moment.
He texted again saying he was there and asking if DS3 was better, which I also ignored. He finally rang and asked if I got the text and I said yes (and didn't say anything else). He asked if DS3 was better, I said no. He rambled for a couple minutes, then said he'd call tomorrow. I said whatever and hung up. Not caring right now.