So very behind on this thread. Congrats @MinnieTruck, that's brilliant news about the school. Sending good vibes to everyone else, whatever point you're at in the battle.
I'm still waiting for the LA to respond to our Working Documents. In the meantime, we've been dealing with a lot of EBSA, unfortunately. Both DC are really struggling in their big MS secondary, mainly the sensory and social stuff. Our SENCo has lightened DD's lesson load a little and has her doing a few sessions each week with a dedicated LSA, which has been positive. But even though the SEN team is lovely, they can't change the fact that it's a massive school with all the sensory overwhelm, etc that comes with that. We're seriously considering a change of setting but it seems like there aren't many good options. Most of the ASD specialist schools near us are either tailored to children who are behind academically and/or have a lot of behavioural needs, or they're wholly independent and won't take DD because of her PDA profile. I'm waiting to hear back from one independent SS following DS's assessment there a couple of weeks ago, but the fact they haven't been back in touch doesn't bode well, and DS didn't seem keen on going to such a small school (6 or 7 kids/year group).
I'm really warming up to the idea of EOTAS (thanks @BrightYellowTrain for all your insight on some other threads). I have no idea how open to the idea our LA will be, or what exactly a package would look like -- lots to learn. Online school is one possibility. DD says she knows she should probably change schools but she's distraught at the thought of leaving the SEN team and a couple of teachers she really likes. Our current SENCo has said he's open to looking at a hybrid option, where DD could do some in-person lessons at MS and the rest online, which could possibly work, if it isn't too challenging logistically and it's a feasible EOTAS arrangement.
I think we probably won't be able to wait until our tribunal hearings, though, as they're not for another six months. So I think we'll need to look into an early review. Our new caseworker is on leave, so I haven't been able to discuss anything with them yet.