Thank you @BrightYellowTrain really helpful. As always I have follow up questions, sorry!
I used the site to look but found the filters etc not very user friendly, I'll give it another go.
I am not sure about the section 41 status of the schools...
I'm in Maidstone/Medway border. She had a taxi to school before but only a 20 min journey, she didn't mind it as long as it was the same driver every day.
I tried;
The view school in eden bridge, an hour away though, said they were full.
Broomhill Bank also said full.
Saw a tiny AP in Gravesend, pier view academy, not right for her. Won't go into details why, but I can pm anyone who wants to know...
Spoke to Hilden school in Tonbridge, loads of places, independent but only 6 students in the whole school, again not right for her as she might be the only student in year 10. She can't cope with scrutiny so being the only student in a class or year would not go down well...plus no languages which she is brilliant at and no art, no music although they did do igcses I think.
Waiting to hear from west heath, looked great.
Will look at Ripplevale. Did like the look of it but independent I think? Also very close.
Newingate sounds possible...about 40 mins away.
Infiniti school in Doddington, Sittingbourne, very close but not sure yet, wasn't clear what the students were like, SEMH I think.
Kent college, is that Canterbury? Not too far maybe again, there was one in Whitstable though which I think again is about 45 mins away. I'll look properly in a mo.
There's a school which has a unit attached called the viewpoint, for EBSA, girls school in Tonbridge, hillview I think, need to investigate. But wary of girls schools now though after her experience of grammar.
I agree, an SRP probably won't work. I only had one option, The Malling School, but I can't see her wanting to do the whole walking into a building with hundreds of kids or entering a year 10 peer group who are all bonded etc...even if she were in a SRP, they very much tried to get them to attend mainstream for most lessons.
I guess I won't worry too much about the independent thing and just find something suitable, worry about appeal etc later. But if I call them, they aren't section 41, and they say full, then no point naming them?
Re EOTAS...I'm in two minds.
She's hopefully got a place at Rosewood school for outreach, hoping to hear this coming week. If that works then maybe she could cope with trying a school, but at the moment I can't see her going to one at all. Also could be weeks before I know if that's going to work. Rosewood is only a short term placement, 12 weeks. Not long enough for her. They do keep students in year11 and I've heard wonderful things, I know a student very like her that I taught who is there, doing really well. Fully expecting it to fail though if she doesn't want to or is too anxious to try and then if EHCP isn't in place, argue for an alternative section 19 provision. Meeting with KCC on 11th Feb to discuss.
So my options are trying a school, if it fails and she isn't able to attend, ask for an early review and then EOTAS? However I'm assuming early review isn't quick? Or would it be a priority as she's going to be in year 11 in three terms? If I have to then appeal she could be over 16 at that point with nothing in place.
I currently can't see her going to any school again but I am feeling pretty down about it all at the moment and maybe I'm being pessimistic. EOTAS is a fight to get and also I have to work, she's ok to be left alone but currently she's alone 3.5 days a week and it's too much. If she had a budget for a personal assistant type role (I know that's not what they're called but can't think straight right now) then maybe but I can't see her ever getting used to that either. Could take months to get used to a new person, even the right one.
Is it better to start off asking for it or to try once a school place has failed? As then you've shown that school isn't appropriate?
Also wouldn't the EP report have to say that they that a school wouldn't be suitable?
The timeline confused me as they sent it to panel for assess at 6 weeks, then refused, but then said as the school had then sent evidence they would do another panel, that was last week, so at 11 weeks...week 14 is a 13th of Feb, EP saw me last Monday and school Thursday..week 12....so I guess I'm assuming she hasn't been refused issue but they still have time to refuse it I guess? Won't hold my breath or celebrate just yet! I wasn't sure if it reset as it were after panel, but I discovered the EP service had the request to assess at week 9, before the second panel (not even sure that actually happened)🤷
The caseworker isn't replying to emails and isn't answering the phone so I'm going to try to talk to someone Monday as all they've sent is the EP, they haven't asked anyone else to assess, I don't know about SALT etc but again, she probably can't talk to anyone anyway..
One thing is I'm waiting on a report from a private consultant about her hypermobility spectrum disorder diagnosis. It's been 6 weeks now and I'm fuming because he wasn't cheap but always seems to be away somewhere. I'm going to chase that as I want it included. She needs pacing of physical activity and aids when she's in pain or fatigued which would go in the health section I think.
Sorry for all the questions and thank you so much again.
I'm really struggling with all this at the moment. I saw one of her friends from primary who was so close to her, doing the 'normal' walking home after school thing, she chatted to DD briefly but hasn't contacted her at all in months to hang out and it properly hurt my heart to know she's got no one and that she won't be doing all those normal things.