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SLEEP IS FOR THE WEAK PART 6 - now with added caffeine*

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ImBarryScott · 10/09/2007 08:04

  • I wish.

Morning all,

Hope you find this!

for your rough night Amber.

After a few good ones, we had a crap one too. Up at 1.30, 3, 4.30, 5.30, 6.15........
I think she was a bit overtired last night. Hope we can get her napping better today .

So how were all your nights?

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tibsy · 18/09/2007 13:36

hi soozg - do they go to bed at the same time? ... no real suggestions i'm afraid as although i have 2 dc's, one is 1 and the other is 13, so dont have the same probs! as EP suggested, another thread might do the trick

thanks meg and EP will try the calendula cream. have got a naked bottomed girl in the tibsy house atm.....its like having an un-housetrained puppy about the place [ grin].....thank heavens for wooden floors

EffiePerine · 18/09/2007 13:40

Tibs: you might end up accidentally potty-training her and get on the local news

tibsy · 18/09/2007 13:47

fame at last.....on tv cos of a red bum!!!!!

Amberjee · 18/09/2007 13:52

hi tibs for your bare bottomed dd. i neverhad any success with weleda when there was bad nappy rash, though i use it now as a preventative rash. i did have success with the highly chemical metanium though

ds has had two head bumps today. one left a huge red mark on his forehead and am sure will be a massive bruise shortly. he's just started experimenting with crazy moves and he's none to steady - ouch!

feeling tired. oh oh oh.

hi soozg. no tips, but sympathy, i can hardly get any sleep with one LO, let alone 4...

i had LO in a 1.0 tog sleeping bag. the thermometer said it was 22 degrees anyway, so not too cold i suppose. going to experiment with a little extra layer to see if it helsp the sleep [hopeful emoticon], but i think it's down to either teeth or learning to do crazy unstable yoga poses at the moment.

gingerninja · 18/09/2007 14:37

How many posts? this'll take some reading. I'll be back

gingerninja · 18/09/2007 15:01

MrsTH, lovely to 'see' you again. Sorry about your redundancy. Sounds like you're making progress on the sleep front.

Tibsy, bacardi and coke and dancing? sounds like a night I had a long time ago........
We've had a couple of nights like yours with long wakings and last night she screamed and screamed for no obvious reason. I give up some nights. Wish I could sleep sitting up with her on my knee.

EP, loved what you said in your post about not regretting sleeping with your DS. That's just it. Sometimes I get cheesed off that it takes so long to settle DD and she's up all night but in a couple of years we'll have forgotten all of this.

Amber, LOL I also thought I was being a wimp for feeling the chill and considering the heating. DH is Scottish so unless there is ice on the inside of the windows it's not cold enough for heating!

DD in PJ's with a fluffy blanket and then an extra one if cold in the night. Last night we slept together and I like to wear pj's if in bed with her so I can tell if she might be hot. We had two fluffy blankets and were toasty. Her room was about 18 degrees. I hate wearing pjs in bed though, they all ride up and feel uncomfortable. I much prefer au naturel but can't be prancing about in the nuddy in the middle of the night. it's very undignified.

Soozg, lordy what a handful. Perhaps you could....take them all swimming after school, give them a later tea, give them some books to read in bed? Send them to bed at a slightly different time. It'd make me sleep.

Guess what, we had footsteps, real live proper walking on ya own footsteps. Yesterday was her first proper series of steps between me and DH that weren't her just propelling herself forward. They were considered. Today she's been walking from one to the other, from the wall to me, from toys to me. Stopping in the middle of the room and then going again. it's amazing and my chest feels all puffed with pride

Amberjee · 18/09/2007 15:18

yayayayayay for considered steps ginger! and nice to see you. xx

EffiePerine · 18/09/2007 15:22

WOWEE!!!

DS still at the tottering the odd step stage - much quicker to crawl! He's standing a lot more on his own though so am waiting... sod's law says it'll happen while I'm at work!

tibsy · 18/09/2007 15:33

ginger way hay for your walking girlie!!!! you must be so proud....i bet dd was so pleased with herself too
dd still at the attempting to stand phase, she aint too steady on her pins yet!!

amber - yeah, its pretty bad actually will have a hunt around for the calendula and the metanium, give em both a try, poor girlie. for poor ds's bumped head...bumps and bruises are a good sign tho, better to come out than go in.... for his crazy yoga moves!! dd keeps trying to do headstands or roly polys, one or t'other!! theyre so cute sometimes eh?
although not in the middle of the night

Tamdin · 18/09/2007 18:11

yay for ginger's dd

for baby jee's head

Well my little cherub has tonsillitis!
He's been remarkably cheeful in hindsight.

doc said his tonsils are enormous and he has upper resp tract infection

gingerninja · 18/09/2007 20:08

Poor little love Tam. Hope he's feeling better soon.

We're all still a bit gastro here so I'm expecting a bad night and a horrible day at work trying to sound interested while all i want to do is sleep.

Good luck for some good nights.

Amberjee · 18/09/2007 20:50

OH, poor little tonsils, at least you know why he's beenout of sorts.

Tamdin · 18/09/2007 21:04

thanks guys. Am off to bed with him now. he's been down since 7.30 but keeps coughing and waking himself up.Think it's easier if the tamdin family gets in bed together and calls it a day.

ginger hope your night isn't too bad

amber hope your ds does one of his 1 waking wonders

night x

Amberjee · 18/09/2007 21:32

tibs, are you still doing a bottle instead of BF at night? am so tempted to take that approach and see if it makes any difference, but i know it will be some tears for a while, but at least i wouldn't feel like i'm starving him ...

for some reason i feel like we're in for a better night tonight though. good naps, good meals, settled himself to sleep. all good things, but where will it lead us??

MegBusset · 18/09/2007 22:12

Hugs to all the poorly parents and babies tonight!

Hope your hunch is right, Amber. Having said that, today we have had three good naps, three good meals and he fell asleep in the cot (I've found that he will settle with just a cuddle in the cot since the last week or so, rather than having to be fed or rocked to sleep). And yet I have already been upstairs and had to get the boob out once to resettle him!

Tamdin · 19/09/2007 07:54

morning all

unsettled night here but not as bad as i thought it would be considering he's not well.

good thing is when he see the antibiotic bottle he gets excited and says yumyum
better than fighting to get him to swallow it i guess!

ImBarryScott · 19/09/2007 08:22

Oh Tam - what a brave boy. Sounds like he's doing really well all things considered. Hope you are managing ok.

Meg - Hope DS settled for you after the bedtime boob

EP - how was your night?

Amber - hope your hunch was right

Ginger - well done to your clever

Tibs- hope DD's poor bottom is more comfy today

15 mins crying before bed here. Still feels like an age. Then peeped at 10 and straight back to sleep. Up and singing at 3.30 and 5.30, but DD seemed to have sung herself back to sleep after about 20mins. Will be experimenting with the monitor volume tonight - at the moment all the peeps and groans are broadcast directly into my ear, and I wouldn't mind feeling a bit more of the benefit of DD's new self-settling skills .

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Tamdin · 19/09/2007 08:27

well done baz sounds like she's doing so well. def turn the monitor down to mid way. ours is always at full volume and in the early days i probably responded too quickly.

Now all moans, shouts and cries are in my ear as he's glued to my face

on a totally different bragging topic ds just counted to 5! (very proud mummy emoticon)

ImBarryScott · 19/09/2007 08:34

awww - what a smart cookie!

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MegBusset · 19/09/2007 08:40

Baz, sounds like good progress! I have the monitor turned right down or I wake up with every murmur.

Tam don't blame you for being proud! And good that your night wasn' too awful.

Ours was a bit unsettled but sure it's because of the tooth as he was crying a lot and rubbing his mouth.

tibsy · 19/09/2007 09:30

morning!!!!

tam poor lo. hope the antibiotics do the trick. [proud tibsy emoticon] for your smart boy counting to 5

amber - dd has a bottle before bed and as shes teething am bfing her when she wakes, altho when i was 'merry' the other night she had a bottle. am planning to use bottle again when she has a break from the cursed teething

ibs for your night, what a clever baby ibs!!! def agree with volume control ..... dds bottom much calmer thanks!! she'll be keeping her nappy on today

meg for poor lo's tooth. hope it comes thru soon. they seem to take forever sometimes dont they?

our night ok.....3 wakings but dd settled well after each bf so thats good. still feel like the living dead tho

anyone got anything nice planned today? am trying to summon up enough energy to take dd to M & Ts....dont really feel like going tbh, but feel i should make the effort for little un

MegBusset · 19/09/2007 09:41

I have stopped going to my old group as it clashes with LO's lunchtime nap, and I had got a bit bored of it anyway. There's another one nearby that I might check out tomorrow.

My friend is coming over this afternoon with her DS who is 3 weeks older than mine, so looking forward to that!

Oh, and glad your DD's bottom is better

Tamdin · 19/09/2007 12:15

just back from M&T's. have been going for a year now so feel very at home and ds loves it. am always nice to newbies though because i know how daunting it can be at first.

better go. one of closest friends is due her 3rd baby today and is having a home birth so promised i'd ring her when ds gone for nap to see how she's doing and remind her she's doing the 'right' thing.

hope everyone having nice day

tibsy · 19/09/2007 12:36

sorry guys, ask a Q and then i just bugger off went to group after all and we made some new friends, so that was nice
you'll never believe it, but dd just fell asleep in her highchair eating her yoghurt had to wake her to change her nappy ...wish i'd taken a piccie

hi meg hope you enjoy your afternoon with your friend

tam hope all goes well for your friend. i had a home birth with dd and it was fantastic. would def recommend it x

Tamdin · 19/09/2007 13:09

wow tibs, so brave after a 12 year gap. friend has had one bad hospital birth with dd1 then an ok one with dd2 but would love to able to stay at home for this one. hospital is only 10 mins away if necesssary and she has hired a private midwife so am really hoping for her that she gets her wish.

think i'd be too chicken to have a homebirth with no.2 and infact now i come to think of it I had a retained placenta after ds so don't think i'd be allowed

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