If you (still) feel the need to discuss Moldies [part 2]

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This thread is a continuation of this one. That one had become too big for its own boots the system to handle.

who is making the assumption that 'good' people are moldies...i must have missed that

Hope to still see you around vvvqv.

exactly, elf! and most of the two years i was home from france, my dad was working abroad. leaving me at home with a permissive half-French mother (well, this time, i won't mention it to your father) and a sister at university who was the source of endless alibis).

fun times, fun times indeed!

When my parents went on holiday leaving me in the house, my dad set some sort of camera up to ensure that I wasn't sneaking in my boyfriend (a new one, who I ended up marrying ), and I couldn't work out why he seemed to go off my best friend a bit afterwards (she had been stopping at the house).
While I had been on best behaviour (i.e. having sex in ally ways / at the park / in fields etc) my best friend had snuck her boyfriend into my parents house to have her wicked way with him.
I looked like an angel

vvq, you said something a little similar on another thread. i would like to reiterate that if i have said anything which mentions you personally, which you find offensive, then please make it known and i can either explain or apologise as, from the bottom of my heart, i don't think i have done so.

i also don't think that i have mentioned your name disproportionatley, and i rather think i have done so only to anser posts of yours (ironically)

i certainly do not feel bullied by you and had respected your views on many subjects.

I sincerely hope you don't feel bullied by anyone! let alone me.

I have never said that i won't engage with you, i am happy to engage you, any time.

Rhubarb said that you were 'reported' to have said.

I think she will concede that it is indeed not Invites to which you were refering in that quote to me (on the other thread i think?) but apologies to the gracious and kind.

i hope the gracious and kind received them

be well vvq, i certainl;y hope that you have many posting years on mumsnet as you have a lot to give.

Glad you back for a bit of sparring Soph.

Expat, that sounds like a recipe for inevitable disaster! Older and wiser...

VVVQ - you're in a damned if you do and damned if you don't position here but changing your name and losing your MN identity is, in my opnion, the wrong thing to do.

Shine up your (not inconsiderable) balls and retain your identity. Nobody should be losing ground on MN itself over this, IMO.

oh, MT, it was 1987 - 1989. a truly fun time .

VVVQ I hope you do not change your name. I have enjoyed reading your posts in the past and hope that I continue to do so. I for one think this has all got out of hand now.

doodle's right vvqv.

Don't change yer name, VVV, I might forget who you are and slaaaaaaag you orrrrrrrf!

DaddyJ, I'm puzzled by something you said further down the thread (which I said I wouldn't post on again, but hey!) You said I was denying hurt feelings and behaving as Nestle - do you mean this post? I wasn't meaning what you thought at all and apologise if I gave that impression:

By hunkermunker on Wed 31-Dec-08 23:41:02
She has a point though - google "mumsnet moldies"

Anyway, I'm going to go back to posting as and when I feel like it on MN - and wherever else I fancy.

If people who have never liked me anyway want to continue to dislike me, that's cool.

If people who did like me want to think ill of me, I'm sad about that. Maybe it'll all be fine again one day.

But if I keep posting on threads such as this, I'm not doing anyone any favours, least of all me!

HNY, all. May 2009 bring you love, laughter and Botox for your wrinkly bits.

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Oh, and liken me to Nestle again and I'll have your nuts

i agree vvq, don't change your name. this whole thing will blow over in a couple of weeks at the most.

i also agree with hunker that the nestle jibe was to goddam far - no one deserves that

especially not YOU hunker

Yikes DaddyJ you're a very brave man!

"Anyway, I'm going to go back to posting as and when I feel like it on MN - and wherever else I fancy."

Well, tbh hunker that does sound a bit.. ..gauntlet-throwy. Or - if you follow the American Roget's - a bit fuckyouish.

awkward that i'm coming on here after hunker but truth be told it's coincidence, i've just shown a RL friend out of the house and am checking out this thread... anyhow... Custy, you did say a pretty nasty thing to VVVQ on a deleted thread that i remember, something to the effect that she was being given a hard time by someone else because they had seen the 'real' her, and that you'd always had the measure of her. it was personal, and it was pointed and i for one was pretty shocked.

perhaps you'd forgotten, because it was deleted? either way, if it's got to the stage where people are de-regging and changing names then this is all NUTS of course.

[waves back] :D

You can have them!
Missus is up the duff for the 2nd time,
they have done their job.

Hold on a sec..

Aitch, i had forgotten about that comment, not on purpose as you might be suggesting, its certainly out of context

However if it hurt vvqv i deeply apologise - again, like i did on that thread.

"not on purpose as you might be suggesting"

i didn't say it, i didn't suggest it. i said 'perhaps you've forgotten as it was deleted?' and i meant 'perhaps you've forgotten as it was deleted?'

congrats daddyj.

although the 'if it hurt' apology is one that i'm sure i've seen you knock back in the past, tbh. you can do better, custy.

dear god.

now now, don't let's start making this about me, custy, i'm just saying that an 'if' sorry isn't much of a sorry. you know that, i've seen you point it out plenty of times.

I'll be honest- it was a shock to me that people were so hurt and upset about Moldies because I never really knew many people very well on here, and never really posted that much. I now have a deeper understanding of how people feel about not being invited and can fully appreciate how they feel and that does not feel good to me at all.

I think that lots of people have regrets but unfortunately the clock cannot be turned back now, so we all need to find a way of moving on- and getting on.

I would just love to see everybody getting on again. All this sniping and arguing is not healthy and it'd be great to start the new year off positively.