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Hatred towards social housing tenants on here getting worse.

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JenniferBooth · 17/12/2023 13:51

And really nasty and out of control Here is one example but there have been many

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4964096-to-still-feel-slightly-bitter-about-this-inheriting-social-housing?page=1

There have been a few threads in the last week alone. Its like this is a nice safe little prejudice that the social housing haters can enjoy with no comebacks.

To still feel slightly bitter about this? (Inheriting social housing) | Mumsnet

I grew up in a two bed council house with my mother (single parent) and my sister in what could now be considered a highly gentrified area within walk...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4964096-to-still-feel-slightly-bitter-about-this-inheriting-social-housing?page=1

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AshleyBlue · 20/12/2023 02:42

People going on about inherited tenancies. That can only happen once in my area.

For example, adult child lives with a parent in SH and is their carer, parent died and adult child inherited tenancy. Adult child gets into a relationship, moves partner in, married or not they live there happily for 60yrs, adult child dies. Partner can't inherit tenancy because that's already happened last time. Partner is given a months notice to leave, even though they're 80, have lived there majority of their life and are going to be street homeless.

Happens also in situations with younger people such as one parent dies and they was the tenancy holder, other parent inherited the tenancy, they had a child together and when the second tenancy holder also dies their 18yr old who lives with them still is now homeless because they can't inherit the tenancy.

SH doesn't get passed down through generations forever more.

AllIsWellish · 20/12/2023 15:36

Well if working made me lose my council house I'd not have got a job, which I wasnt forced to do as I was getting carers allowance for my son

KnittedCardi · 20/12/2023 16:31

Dontcallmescarface · 19/12/2023 17:02

Do you know what would happen if people were told that once they pass a certain income they'll lose their homes? What would you do if a promotion meant you would be forced out of your home? Well on the plus side everyone can then bitch about how those of us in SH lack motivation and ambition, so that'll be another stick to beat us with.

It wouldn't be that perverse. But when you have cases of people earning six figure salaries in social housing, there really should be a sensible mechanism to move them on.

stomachameleon · 20/12/2023 16:46

Like certain union leaders.....

LadyScarlett · 20/12/2023 16:51

There will always be people in every "category " (for want of a better word) that people will use as an example of what is good or bad in any situation.

I grew up in a council house. Working parents, solid house, great community.

My cousins grew up in a council house. Never worked, place was a tip, not nice community.

Neither are representative of everyone in social housing.

I left home, got married, bought a house, had kids. No council housing as most had been bought by then, and only areas available were places I didn't want to live.

I got divorced, moved out, ex kept house (long story).

Again, I wanted to live somewhere nice. No decent available social housing available around here, certainly not at short notice. So i private rented. Very expensive. My neighbours rent was half mine as a housing association owned their flat.

Didn't hate the neighbours. You win some etc.

Few years later, bought another house.

People just need to focus on their own lives.

JenniferBooth · 20/12/2023 19:16

"It wouldnt be that perverse"

Yeah right 🙄

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FreshWinterMorning · 23/12/2023 14:40

Candycurrantbun · 18/12/2023 18:40

I see the SH is FREE HOUSING and they are all on BENEFITS crew have rocked up to show how bloody thick they are.

This. ^ Amazing how many people are so badly educated and narrow-minded that they still think this. It's hilarious. 😆

Really @JenniferBooth we should be laughing at the haters and beraters and pitying them, not getting angry, because they are sooooooo pathetic, and sooooooo wrong in what they say.

You're right that some people on here are full of hate for folk in social housing, but it's not worth getting angry about their vitriol and bile. Just ignore them. It's because they're jealous. SUPER jealous! Grin

Because.......... People in social housing have got affordable/reasonable rent, a tenancy for life, and repairs done when they need them - that they don't have to pay for. (But they do pay through the rent I guess,) and rent paid if they lose their job/when they retire. And despite the 'free house/everyone's on benefits' myth that some badly educated people spew out, many people in social housing DO pay rent on their property. And if some people do get the rent paid, so what?

Imagine having such a miserable life and being so unhappy that you resent people having safe, long term, affordable housing. As I said, just pity the haters. I do.

MrsGrinchmas · 23/12/2023 14:46

I'm a council tenant and I'm a doctor. Still wouldn't be able to afford private rent with three other mouths to feed as well as myself.

Comedycook · 23/12/2023 15:22

MrsGrinchmas · 23/12/2023 14:46

I'm a council tenant and I'm a doctor. Still wouldn't be able to afford private rent with three other mouths to feed as well as myself.

A lot of people who private rent can't afford to private rent.

JenniferBooth · 23/12/2023 18:16

@FreshWinterMorning Get your point but there has been enough publicity about so called repairs and disrepair in social housing to know that it isnt all wine and roses.

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LorlieS · 23/12/2023 22:08

@Comedycook and @MrsGrinchmas Agreed. We have no choice but to rent privately, even though between us hubby and I only earn around £30k between us p.a. We earn "too much" to qualify for social housing but we can't afford to buy. We have three kids, two of whom are teenagers with huge appetites to feed!! We get no government support and it's so, so hard financially.

OneRedRose · 09/07/2024 20:41

The UK requires more social housing. Cost of living is ridiculous.

JenniferBooth · 14/07/2024 16:09

More support for prisoners on MN than there is for SH tenants.

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JenniferBooth · 14/07/2024 16:19

MidnightMeltdown · 19/12/2023 12:24

I think it's the opposite. I think it's the tenants who are NOT on benefits who cause resentment - because they are inhabiting properties which should go to those in need.

Like the prisoners who are going to be let out early?

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RockStarMartini · 12/03/2025 16:14

Timewentfast · 19/12/2023 03:46

I think people harbour ill feeling because

a. we all know some of them (not all) are lazy spongers

b. Anybody that has to private rent is hacked off because of the difference in price (plus the social tenants have security and better upgrades)

c. lots of the houses are an eyesore - not necessarily the actual house itself but the outside. We have newbuild estates nearby and the social housing bit is an eyesore already(rubbish lying in front garden, bags of shit, unkempt gardens etc) and the houses only got built in last couple of years. So they are pulling the area down for everyone else. The builder has put these houses on the front of the estate nearest the busy road so we all have to look at them as we walk our dogs/drive by. The rest of the area is nice and well kept so that pisses me off.

I think it feels like salt in the wound so to speak (ie they get cheaper and secure housing in a newbuild nice area and can't even be arsed to look after it. Just makes it seem like they don't appreciate their good fortune.

A friend lives in SH due to domestic abuse. One of the other tenants spends a good chunk of the year in Spain because the subsidised rent means they can afford to. Another is in out and out prison but the property is kept open for them. The one that lives below my friend smokes so much weed my friend cant use her balcony on a nice day and there are mattresses and general crap all around the communal outside area.

It makes me sick when there are so many deserving people who genuinely need and would look after these properties. I know it's not everyone but it's enough.

JenniferBooth · 12/03/2025 19:14

RockStarMartini · 12/03/2025 16:14

A friend lives in SH due to domestic abuse. One of the other tenants spends a good chunk of the year in Spain because the subsidised rent means they can afford to. Another is in out and out prison but the property is kept open for them. The one that lives below my friend smokes so much weed my friend cant use her balcony on a nice day and there are mattresses and general crap all around the communal outside area.

It makes me sick when there are so many deserving people who genuinely need and would look after these properties. I know it's not everyone but it's enough.

But thats exactly what happens when ppl insist SH should only be for the most desperate. Why cant ppl see that? Its called residulisation

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