I appreciate MNHQ trying to find clarity in this. But it is minefield.
I've realised there is no making sense of it - things do not add up either biologically or logically and it changes and evolves all the time.
This weekend my youngest and their partner came to visit. This time last year they were 2 young women who identified as female and used their birth names. They have now both changed their names and their 'genders' - though this seems to be confused with 'sex'.
My child describes themselves as Non-Binary Trans, is about to start Testosterone injections and wants a double mastectomy. My child's pronouns are they or he - either will do apparently. However they don't identify as either male or female.
So presumably they don't want to be referred to as a transman - though if pushed would prefer to be 'seen' as male.
The partner is Non-binary but is not intending on having any hormones or surgery. Their pronoun is they.
Both look female. Both display female 'traits' which my son has never displayed - even allowing for socialisation. To all observers they are a lesbian couple. Only they're 'not'.
It's all about feelings. Gender is entirely personal and based on how you feel - so there are as many genders as there are individual people.
As I said it's a minefield and a constantly evolving one at that.
None of us should set out on here to be offensive or hurtful or use terms that cause problems - but we are heading (if not there already) into a topsy turvy place where language and truth cease to have relevance or meaning.
Making it almost impossible to approach this rationally with fairness and consideration for all.