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Mumsnet mafia ??!!!

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charlyp · 09/10/2006 16:28

Am a really new poster to Mumsnet having just found out I am pregnant for the first time EDD June 1st, have been surfing the site and making a few posts but have been very surprised by the amount of vitriol in some of the posts on certain subjects, and am amazed about people outing other people and everyone seems to know everyone elses business - more than you might expect on a forum? How does that work?? Is there like a bunch of people who all live in the same road or something? Just wondering as on most forums I post on there are lots of people sharing views but it rarely gets that personal inn terms of people getting to know other people off line. Made me wonder if there is a Mumsnet mafia in place!! Makes me alightly concerned about posting my thoughts and feelings about the things that are happening to me and about how my privacy will be respected.

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charlyp · 10/10/2006 10:01

my response to enid was an ironic one

i think my first post was a week or so ago when i discovered that at 34 I am knocked up for the first time and in my quest for information and someone to talk to I found Mumsnet.

So Welsh Boris, you can think what you like but I was making an observation as someone who had a fresh take on things

Take it as you will .... not my problem, I was looking to find people to talk to about how i am feeling and to get advice from people who know

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GhoulsToo · 10/10/2006 10:02

thread title 'mumsnet mafia' is not controversial????!!!!!

GhoulsToo · 10/10/2006 10:02

'knocked up'?

Enid · 10/10/2006 10:03

probably a good idea to chat about being pregnant for a while before starting quite critical threads then

Enid · 10/10/2006 10:04

yeah 'knocked up'

nice

are you a bloke?

or Rizzo from Grease?

expatinscotland · 10/10/2006 10:05

, Ghouls!

'Knocked up' is an American term for sprogged up.

You're exposing yourself here, charly .

FWIW, I don't name change, either.

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charlyp · 10/10/2006 10:07

gosh. How incredibly unpleasent.

I have been posting on the June 2007 thread, and a stats thread, and on a tiredness in early pregnancy thread

i was making an observation with this thread after the weekend, not meant to be controversial, only indicating that there is a quorum of people who all seem very tight

maybe I should only come back here and post when i know all the right terms and have all the right abbreviations so I don't say anything wrong

what horrible, snobbish things to say

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LieselVonTrappDoor · 10/10/2006 10:08

Alternatively we could have an interview panel for all the newbies to see if they are up to scratch. I wont tell you who would be on the panel.

GhoulsToo · 10/10/2006 10:09

expat

I know what it means, but women don't usually use the term about themselves - not where I come from anyway!

Enid · 10/10/2006 10:09

It works both ways, sorry if you feel got at. But I think some of us felt offended by the term mumsnet mafia.

WelshBorisKarloff · 10/10/2006 10:10

am still pissing myself at rizzo from grease

expatinscotland · 10/10/2006 10:10

Liesel and I will chair the Scottish panel .

Enid · 10/10/2006 10:10

if you are funny and humble you get in on my watch

expatinscotland · 10/10/2006 10:11

There are worse things I coud do . . .

Than slag an MNer or two . . .

throckenholt · 10/10/2006 10:11

periodically a fairly random group (not always the same people) in mumsnet have a huge bun fight and temporary meltdown ensues - with lots of mudslinging. Sometimes these events are provoked by the people concerned (as the recent one may have been). Lots of others watch in bemusement - not quite understanding what is going on. But the vast majority of people who post on here don't get involved.

The rest of the time it is a very funny, supportive friendly place, that can get argumentative at times. And yes many of the women are hormonal - also people tend to be more vociferous in the anonymity of a web forum.

You can get really good support here - and if there is something you really don't want to be identified for then as someone suggested use a temporary alias for that topic alone.

Some people go to meet ups or otherwise become friends off-line - giving the impression of some notion of insiderness. Just like the rest of life really.

So post as you feel fit, and enjoy.

GhoulsToo · 10/10/2006 10:12

"only indicating that there is a quorum of people who all seem very tight"

isn't that inevitable? The forum has been going for many years and some members have been here since the start, it's natural that some of them have a close bond. (isn't it?)

FioFio · 10/10/2006 10:12

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PretendFriend · 10/10/2006 10:12

humble????

Enid · 10/10/2006 10:12

I could stay home every night
log on, and start a fight

expatinscotland · 10/10/2006 10:13

Throw cold water
every day
And slag my friends away
Over a tale that's just untrue . . .

zippitippitoes · 10/10/2006 10:13

how can people be offended by mumsnet mafia? and really pleased with vipers' nest? is it a lexographic thing?

expatinscotland · 10/10/2006 10:14

Fio I was freaked by EE last night!

Especially that Glenn Miller tune playing.

WelshBorisKarloff · 10/10/2006 10:15

eww nana moon ewwww

PretendFriend · 10/10/2006 10:15

And how come it's fine and dandy to say up the duff, but knocked up means it must be a man?

FioFio · 10/10/2006 10:15

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