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Mumsnet Christmas Appeal - suggestions please

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JustineMumsnet · 21/10/2013 15:03

Following on from a couple of threads discussing the Christmas appeal over the weekend, I thought we should post our thoughts on things.

First we're really sorry if not being nominated for this year's appeal has made anyone feel bad or left out. Obviously it's the opposite of why we do it but the truth is there will always be deserving people who, for whatever reason - frequent namechanges or pure and simple oversight - will be overlooked.

Over the years the Xmas appeal really has brought a lot of joy both to the givers and receivers of gifts - this is a typical post/mail from a giver:

"It is a wonderful thing this Santa business. It totally dispels the idea that Mumsnet is no more than words on a screen and shatters the notion of the pit of vipers. Since being matched with you, not a day has passed when I haven't thought of you and your family. Your posts shine with warmth, humour and love for your family. You are a remarkable woman. For me, it has been more than sending a little something: you have made me really think about what Christmas should be.
So I thank you too, and will raise a glass to you and yours on Christmas Day. Much love to you all"

As Christmas becomes every more about consumption we think the appeal for many is a reminder of what it is really all about. It certainly is for us at MNHQ and consequently we are very happy to put a lot of MNHQ resource into the operation; SandyMumsnet pretty much devotes a month of time to it.

Clearly it doesn't operate optimally for everyone, but net net, it really is a good thing I believe. That said we'd value suggestions about how you think we could do it better. We took over the operation of the appeal only because it was becoming too big a job for any individual - but it was conceived by Mumsnetters for Mumsnetters and exists pretty much in the same form as that original idea.

Do let us know your thoughts and suggestions here.

OP posts:
Mellowandfruitful · 22/10/2013 11:00

Good points from gazza

Alibaba I don't think that many people are actually thinking 'why don't I get something?' in a whiny fashion. I think there were enuine feelings of sadness at being invisible on the other thread. There is no easy answer to that of course. I completely agree about not having the 'thank you' threads or the threads about going to post the parcels.

Am confused on one point now - are people allowed to nominate themselves or not, as it stands? Confused

HereComesHoneyBooBooDragon · 22/10/2013 11:02

I'd accept a sparkly shit, now the slugs gone

trish5000 · 22/10/2013 11:03

There seems to be upset all round. Probably at head quarters too.

I cant see how it is going to be solved. Site is now too big, so there are always going to be upsets I think.

Unless if someone is nominated, and they never breathe a word of it?

ExitPursuedByABear · 22/10/2013 11:07

I don't want your shit thank you kindly Miss Honey Halloween Shock

MillyMollyMully · 22/10/2013 11:07

I think it may be illegal to send a shit through the post, though, HD. Even a sparkly one.

ExitPursuedByABear · 22/10/2013 11:08

Nope. I post my horses' shit.

ginslinger · 22/10/2013 11:08

Please don't change anything other than perhaps people not announcing that they've been nominated. Just use the thankyou thread with their number. I think there is far more good comes out of it and although it's sad that people feel sidelined it doesn't mean that it should stop. Life is sometimes unfair but that doesn't mean that we should stop doing something that brings so much joy just because one or two people aren't pleased by it.

MillyMollyMully · 22/10/2013 11:08

Do you? Can I have some?

GobbySadcase · 22/10/2013 11:09

It really should be Kevin.

kotinka · 22/10/2013 11:11

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HereComesHoneyBooBooDragon · 22/10/2013 11:11

How do you post horse shit?

ExitPursuedByABear · 22/10/2013 11:13

In a little plastic box. For worm count process.

Grennie · 22/10/2013 11:17

Do they sell little boxes especially for this purpose?

Reprint · 22/10/2013 11:36

Unless I read things wrongly, self nomination isn't currently allowed (thank heavens) but was suggested by someone.
Just wrong IMO.

Loving the MN Christmas Stocking as a name, though!

(recipe for glittery poo is somewhere on the "poncetastic" thread)

GobbySadcase · 22/10/2013 11:37

Don't you post horseshit in a plastic mailing bag?

HereComesHoneyBooBooDragon · 22/10/2013 11:39

See that makes more sense. It's a sample. Not an entire horse turd. Because that would not be cheap to post.

YoniMatopoeia · 22/10/2013 11:55

See, I really like the 'I've nearly got my gifts ready', 'I'm off to the post office' etc. It is part of the build up to Christmas, and was even when I was brassic and couldn't take part as a donor (and wasn't nominated either). I don't see it as boasting, just some people in the MN community sharing their excitement etc.

And the thank you threads Have To Stay. They are lovely.

GobbySadcase · 22/10/2013 12:01

I could crochet a faux turd?

GobbySadcase · 22/10/2013 12:11

Hmm. Nice thread kill.

BaronessBomburst · 22/10/2013 12:15

I doubt it Gobby. This thread will not be killed THAT easily! Grin

GobbySadcase · 22/10/2013 12:37

Was gonna say. I thought this place was a bit more robust than crocheted horse shit.

If not bwhahahaaaaa I have a secret weapon!

BaronessBomburst · 22/10/2013 12:45
ChestyCoffin · 22/10/2013 13:06

MNHQ what do you think?

SandyMumsnet · 22/10/2013 15:36

Hi everyone

Thanks for the good wishes and thanks for all the suggestions. Keep 'em coming.

ExitPursuedByABear · 22/10/2013 15:39

I have lots, and lots, and lots of horse shit.

If someone sends me the glitter I can start work.

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