Where to find casual encounters as a woman

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I have spent many years being celibate and so done with it now so now it’s time to get back out there, only where do people find causal sex as a woman? I know online seems like the obvious answer but I don’t want to advertise it or for people to recognise me on there? (I think maybe not a pic then only showing on when moved to WhatsApp?) also is it safe meeting men online for sex? Another thing is I will only have school hours free due to being a lone parent so quite restrictive but I guess it’s better than nothing.

Tinder. Just put 'short term ' as an option. There are millions on Tinder no one will recognised you and somewhat of they did? Looking for casual sex is not illegal. You will be inundated.

Framed like that @IHE i suspect you’re right. Besides, everyone knows The Blind Assassin is Attwoods finest work… I’d be much more likely to talk to a man reading that in the coffee shop!

Thanks for the recommendation, @TurningPots. As a man, should I ever venture into a book shop, I shall keep an eye out for it as I browse the Feminist Literature section, and hope I don't get redirected to Sports or Militaria by a passing staff member.
I could quite imagine being asked if I'd like it gift wrapped at the till. 🤔

There is nothing wrong with getting feelings if he is an honest single caring individual & fulfilling your desires. I also would never join a dating site & put personal details out there for the world to see.
Hopefully you will before too long find what you desire.

Ex work colleague? I had this guy who would pop up every now and again (no penetration) albeit I use to think I’d see him when on a distinct break from the girlfriend…)

I currently have a boyfriend from a hobby/passion of mine and we only have 2 during daytime days together usually of a week due to his Alzheimer’s father needing round the clock care/can’t be left alone. I think I prefer this possibly rather than be tied to someone 24/7. (as awful as it sounds I watched my mum be alone on deployment of my Dad in the military when younger)

Great thread OP. I used to have a FB who I dipped in and out with when we were single - he was just perfect for that stage of my life.

I’m single again after 20+ years and don’t want to get into another relationship, just some no strings sex with someone fit and this thread is giving me great pointers.