Poll: How do you give HJs?

[SprySeal]

There was a recent post on how common is it to dislike sticky hands HJs. So how are most doing handjobs?

I can understand towel and tissues. No one wants to sleep in sticky sheets and who can be arsed stripping the bed after a wild time? I swallow him so don't personally use a towel for him but he puts a towel down for me because I'm a squirter/ gusher and it would soak the mattress otherwise.

I do not see it as involving a 'mess'. It is a natural product of sex. If it is the end product of the session I am happy to swallow it, athough more often it ends in a tit wank or a wank squirting at my tits. He likes that I like it. I rub it into my skin. I have no problem with that and like it.

I couldn’t think of anything less sexy than my OH putting a condom on me or donning latex gloves. I’d rather go without or put it somewhere else. Mind you, I don’t ejaculate so I guess we don’t have this issue anyway.

IMO handjob are for solo play, far more enjoyable things to do than being wanked off. Mind you, she does like to give me one when I’m driving 😂

It’s probably just a case of different strokes for different folks, but I don’t see the gloves thing as clinical. For me at least, there is something a bit kinky and dominant about it.

When I snap on the gloves, I feel like it’s a sign that I’m taking control. DH also loves the anticipation of what’s about to come and likes the fact that it means I’m more likely to get the lube out and maybe stick a gloved finger somewhere else.

It has honestly never occurred to me that wearing gloves is something a person might do. My mind is boggled!

Perhaps misunderstanding the term safe sex? 😀 🤭

My other half uses marigolds and lots of lubricant , can assure you it feels nothing short of amazing before people write it off but what ever floats your boat anything goes

I’m just hoping he/she has a different pair for the doing the dishes. 🤣

Reminds me of the Jimmy Carr line: The secret to give a amazing hand job - use your mouth.

How to?
When you grip him does he prefer your finger and thumb to be towards his body or do hold it with your little finger toward the base of it?

The more I hear, the more I live, the more I feel I must have been born about 10 centuries ago in a Nunnery, but with quite a lot of natural talent.

Trust me, when my warm hand takes a gentle hold, nobody would be needing a washing up glove for it to be exciting.

Jimmy Carr haha. Yes I can sort of see that in him.

I’ve always foundit quite hard to orgasm just from oral unless I’m really turned on. Don’t get me wrong, it all feels lovely but usually needs a bit of hand stimulation to trigger the actual orgasm and ejaculation.

Not sure if I’m unusual in this respect or not. I suppose, like women, what works for some men won’t work for others.

I like a combination. I mean, that's what I like to do. Seems natural and also seems to work.

And I know what you mean. That additional friction of the hand action seems like the final essential stage.

I'm sorry I never met you!

Don't get me wrong its not all the time with gloves but does give a different sensation to man naked skin cant , guess everyone's different. Plus points are less mess from the lube and no im in for a good time when the gloves go on but totally appreciate without them

Nah. I like the feel of the skin and the mess.