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Poll: How do you give HJs?

67 replies

SprySeal · 16/05/2025 17:44

There was a recent post on how common is it to dislike sticky hands HJs. So how are most doing handjobs?

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GigiAnnna · 16/05/2025 18:23

I don't do them very often as we prefer to have intercourse, so maybe once or twice a month. But when we do I swallow. It avoids getting the bedsheets sticky and adds a bit of extra sexiness.

MsDDxx · 16/05/2025 19:57

GigiAnnna · 16/05/2025 18:23

I don't do them very often as we prefer to have intercourse, so maybe once or twice a month. But when we do I swallow. It avoids getting the bedsheets sticky and adds a bit of extra sexiness.

Same here. Usually combine a HJ with BJ to vary it. Always swallow.

Gymbunny2025 · 16/05/2025 21:02

just my hands. I like the mess!

SprySeal · 16/05/2025 21:06

Stunned so many swallow. Never for DH 🤮

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fourelementary · 16/05/2025 21:32

I’ve said never but I play with it in my hand as part of foreplay or BJ etc. If just never do a HJ as an activity in and of itself. What a waste!

AnonAnonmystery · 16/05/2025 22:19

Hand job is never the main event for us so luckily don’t have to deal with the mess! Thank god!!!

SaraSunny · 16/05/2025 22:49

I think it depends if the HJ is being incorporated into sex or if it's the main event.

SprySeal · 16/05/2025 22:50

SaraSunny · 16/05/2025 22:49

I think it depends if the HJ is being incorporated into sex or if it's the main event.

Main event

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SaraSunny · 16/05/2025 22:53

My vote has been cast (in a non-Eurovision Song Contest voice!)

JJZ · 17/05/2025 01:21

Don’t do a hand job as a main event but part of other “events” such as a blow job. Love using my hand at the same time as sucking, or alternating.

I swallow too, when done as part of a blow job.

SprySeal · 17/05/2025 13:08

Just hand means no towel or tissues?

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MsDDxx · 17/05/2025 15:00

SprySeal · 17/05/2025 13:08

Just hand means no towel or tissues?

Maybe they mean they just use their hand for the act, rather than use a towel or tissue whilst doing it. I expect they use a towel or tissue to clean up.

Tristan5 · 17/05/2025 16:51

I prefer doing them myself, I’m pretty good at it!!!!!

Gymbunny2025 · 17/05/2025 18:00

SprySeal · 17/05/2025 13:08

Just hand means no towel or tissues?

Yes. But I like to use lube on him and so the whole thing needs a shower afterwards anyway not just tissues. So in a way I can just enjoy the mess 😂

MsDDxx · 17/05/2025 19:11

Gymbunny2025 · 17/05/2025 18:00

Yes. But I like to use lube on him and so the whole thing needs a shower afterwards anyway not just tissues. So in a way I can just enjoy the mess 😂

Got to love the mess - it’s going to be messy if you’re having fun!

Reidwood · 18/05/2025 09:13

@SprySeal hj in combination with bj is such a turn on and yes finding a partner who swallows just enhances our experience even more. Dontbe hung up about swallowing or your DP cumming over you and remember you can reciprocate it to him, make him taste and swallow yiur sweet honey too…69👍🏿

JJZ · 18/05/2025 09:24

Reidwood · 18/05/2025 09:13

@SprySeal hj in combination with bj is such a turn on and yes finding a partner who swallows just enhances our experience even more. Dontbe hung up about swallowing or your DP cumming over you and remember you can reciprocate it to him, make him taste and swallow yiur sweet honey too…69👍🏿

All of this - 100%.

I love using my hand, then mouth, back to hand (repeat as desired 😉) and then taking it into my mouth for the moment when he finishes.

As for 69, it doesn’t get better than that for oral pleasure, easy to time orgasming simultaneously. It’s way up high on my list.

DirtyLouise · 18/05/2025 17:55

I enjoy doing them and don’t mind getting cum anywhere, actually I love watching it shoot out. I don’t give that many hj’s as tit wanks are his thing but when I do I usually use lube as he’s tightly circumcised.

Juliajojo · 19/05/2025 00:20

I do hand jobs jyst never to the point of cumming as it's part of foreplay and I want him to cum in me. He puts a condom on when it's time to be in me.

mnmnddddd · 19/05/2025 05:52

I don't share the idea that it's "messy". I think that's prize for a (hand) job well done.
And I might be a bit weird, but I like feeling cum between bodies in a post organic cuddle.

4u2nome · 19/05/2025 06:28

What about into her panties

Gymbunny2025 · 19/05/2025 06:35

That’s exactly how I feel too @mnmnddddd I see it as a positive thing ☺️

StarlightLady · 19/05/2025 07:01

fourelementary · 16/05/2025 21:32

I’ve said never but I play with it in my hand as part of foreplay or BJ etc. If just never do a HJ as an activity in and of itself. What a waste!

This! I hate mess. Plus if i what a man wants he can do it himself, probably better than me.

Happy to swallow though. When giving a blowie to conclusion it has never occurred to me not to.

GreenCrow · 19/05/2025 09:24

Juliajojo · 19/05/2025 00:20

I do hand jobs jyst never to the point of cumming as it's part of foreplay and I want him to cum in me. He puts a condom on when it's time to be in me.

This is how it works for me with DW, although I'll wear the condom for the HJ part too, which I do quite enjoy.

There's a great variety of answers on this thread and the other one (all grea!), someone mentioned wearing disposable medical style gloves and I've found myself a bit taken with that, might have to suggest it.

SprySeal · 19/05/2025 16:22

GreenCrow · 19/05/2025 09:24

This is how it works for me with DW, although I'll wear the condom for the HJ part too, which I do quite enjoy.

There's a great variety of answers on this thread and the other one (all grea!), someone mentioned wearing disposable medical style gloves and I've found myself a bit taken with that, might have to suggest it.

We use condoms all the time for HJs. Too messy without and don’t know why more don’t use them. Have gloves but still requires having a towel ready for him to finish into

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